It is a sin for a woman to be weak and sick after marriage.

It is a sin for a woman to be weak and sick after marriage.

After marriage, a woman's infirmity is a crime. Traditionally, we say that marriage depends first on the compatibility of the genus, because if the genus is incompatible, the husband and wife will contradict each other after marriage, which will have a bad influence on the health. So, is it a crime for a woman to be sick after marriage?

It is a crime for a woman to be weak after marriage. 1 It is a crime for a woman to be ill after marriage.

For many men, when choosing a spouse, it is generally not lower than these two points. One is external conditions, including women's beauty, figure and temperament, and the other is women's character, whether they are virtuous, housekeeping and hardworking.

Women with outstanding appearance can make them visually enjoy, be elated and sexually aroused, because most men are visual animals, even if they are not tall or handsome and have little money, they still tend to choose beautiful women.

Women are gentle, virtuous and hardworking, which can make men concentrate on their work and career. When a woman becomes the logistics minister of the family, helping her husband cook, wash clothes, take care of children and deal with all kinds of trivial matters, most men will clap their hands and feel a little sorry. Marriage is indeed happier than being single. Why not get married earlier?

There is no quiet day, but someone is carrying a heavy load for you.

Having a gentle, considerate, virtuous and considerate wife naturally makes her husband happy, and so do her parents-in-law. But for the wife, this is not a good thing-if the husband and in-laws take the daughter-in-law's contribution for granted, then she must unconditionally bear this responsibility forever until the end of her life.

Moreover, in their view, once a daughter-in-law stops doing these things, it is unfilial or immoral.

Therefore, from this perspective, the more virtuous, soft-hearted and do everything, the easier it is to be bullied in the husband's family and the easier it is to be unhappy in marriage.

Many women have revealed that when they first got married, they took the initiative to show their sincerity because they wanted to quickly integrate into their new home and make the family relationship harmonious. As a result, my in-laws pushed their luck, pushed everything at home on her, and found fault.

They realized that people's empathy is different. When you realize that it is not easy for your in-laws to raise their sons, they may not be able to pity your efforts, and you may still be an outsider in each other's eyes.

1. In-laws' self-righteous authority: establish prestige through * * daughter-in-law.

Many in-laws regard * * as the nanny of the whole family because they want to establish their prestige, and this exploitation of * * is a better way to establish prestige.

According to the traditional cultural virtues of our country, the younger generation must be filial to their elders, otherwise they will be laughed at by * *, and their in-laws will threaten * * on this ground.

Filial piety is indeed a fine traditional virtue, but the original meaning of this word is that strong young people should think more about the elderly who are weak and ill, and help them more in life to reduce the pain in their later years, instead of unconditionally agreeing with the orders of their elders, sacrificing themselves and embarrassing themselves.

Filial piety should not be used by some willing people and become a means for the elderly to control the young.

* * * * The most obvious is the mother-in-law, all of whom are women. Why do women embarrass women? This is because my mother-in-law was bullied by her in-laws when she was young. As she got older, she found an opportunity to vent her emotions. She wants to relive the pain she suffered in those years.

In this way, this bad habit was passed down from generation to generation in the whole family, until a clever, reasonable and selfish * * appeared to break this vicious circle.

The TV series "Going Home * *" has such a classic plot. Hong Shixian's mother asked * * Lin Pinru to undertake all the big and small affairs at home. If she was slightly dissatisfied, she would break into a furious rage and accuse her of being too useless. And * * efforts, in turn, strengthened her condescending psychology.

But not everyone is so docile. The son's second * * Ellie simply refused all orders and instructions from her mother-in-law, and the man's mother instantly lost her prestige, so she cursed * * unfilial.

Although Ellie got the name of unfilial, she was free to be herself.

In-laws need to understand that * * is just a spouse and partner with the same status as his son, not a servant of in-laws or a nanny of the whole family. When parents need to find someone to be filial, the most important thing to consider is their own son, not a * * person who has no blood relationship with them and has never given them the grace of raising.

2. Afraid of his son's suffering, shift the family responsibility to * *

Why do girls nowadays always ask "Don't live with in-laws" before getting married?

In addition to being afraid of taking on the housework of a large family, the second is that in-laws will be more eccentric. In the eyes of many in-laws, the son is his own offspring, and * * is a vassal of his son, just carrying on the family line.

This kind of in-laws are afraid that their son will have to bear too many troubles after marriage, so they often tell * * to be more considerate of her husband's hard work, not to lose his temper, to do a good job in housework, to take good care of the children, and to make her husband work wholeheartedly.

Every parent will love their children. There is nothing wrong with this, but behind this excessive preference for boys is actually a preference for boys.

Only men are qualified to carry on the family line, and men are able to support their families. Women can't work in public, they can't be stronger than men, they can't earn more money than men ... these are all gender discrimination against women.

Men feel stressed and want to be cared for and loved, but women don't feel it? And now * * is extremely demanding of girls. They should not only have children, but also take care of cooking, housework, in-laws and make money.

Because the husband's income can't support all the expenses of a family, and after divorce, * * will not give women any protection. Therefore, on the one hand, they make money to share the pressure of their husbands, on the other hand, they make money so that they can have a future.

However, in some people's eyes, such a woman is too strong for them to control. In fact, they are just forced by the times.

When the husband is strong enough, the wife is naturally gentle and shy with a smile, but according to the current consumption level and housing prices, most men can't do it.

According to the latest civil code, it seems that equality between men and women has been achieved. Men have no obligation to support their in-laws and women have no obligation to support their in-laws. In fact, this is still gender inequality.

Because there are still many young couples who live with their in-laws after marriage, the daughter-in-law will take care of her in-laws, the woman only goes home two or three times a year, and the husband takes care of her in-laws too little.

When the woman is pregnant, gives birth to a child and takes care of the child, her income plummets and her career life is interrupted. What capital does she use to support her parents? Don't have children, don't have children, and work hard to support your parents, isn't it a better way?

Gender equality still has a long way to go. In-laws will talk about * * when they are their own daughters.

After marriage, a woman's infirmity is a crime. 2. Is she in poor health after marriage? After getting married, her luck was particularly bad.

Is poor health after marriage a mutual restraint?

When most couples talk about marriage, the elders in the family are influenced by traditional ideas and will get married with two words. This marriage doesn't matter. The master said that this woman will kill that man. This is a kind of fate. After marriage, life will be unhappy and we can't be together. So what the master said is true or not, so should we believe it?

One is that genera are incompatible:

Some people say that a man belongs to a rabbit and a woman belongs to a tiger, and a tiger eats a rabbit, that is, a man will be killed by a woman; People often say that there is no peace in the family, and the husband and wife are not together. If both sides belong to these two animals, then it will be said that these two people are definitely unhappy after marriage and there is no peace at home. Do you think this statement is really reliable? It's ridiculous, so fortune telling often harms others and yourself!

The second is the five elements:

In some rural areas, fortune tellers will work out the fate of both sides first. If the man is a big sea water, the woman is a fire in the furnace, and water and fire are incompatible, so naturally they cannot be together. If you have to get married, one of them will definitely die early. Even if you don't die early, you will have a bad life, everything will go wrong and you will get sick. This fortune-telling method is also wrong. From the perspective of eight-character numerology, it is only an auxiliary way, not a dominant way, and it cannot be generalized and reversed.

Therefore, the eight-character marriage method of Zhenzong originated from the four-column numerology in Zhouyi Prediction. There is no difference in Zhouyi. At present, many Taoist priests marry people in the name of * * according to their animal sign or animal year, but marry people in the name of * *, which is a bit like cheating people who don't understand the Book of Changes.

After marriage, a woman's infirmity is a crime. 3. The husband and wife are in poor health.

There is no such thing as a husband and wife.

How can couples get rid of each other? How long does it take a man to get rid of his wife?

Six methods to solve the problem of husband and wife scientifically;

1, put yourself in the other person's shoes when a quarrel is about to happen. You should think about why the other person is unhappy. When the war is about to burn, you might as well stay out of it, wait for the other party to calm down, and then find out the reason, so that you can avoid quarreling. Is it hard for a man to lose his wife in middle age?

2. When the quarrel between husband and wife is inevitable, don't expose each other, talk about the matter, don't prove that you are right by exposing each other's old stories, or in order to make each other yield. Otherwise, it will intensify contradictions, deepen differences and hurt feelings.

Don't compare other people's husband and wife quarrels, and don't compare other people's husbands or wives with each other. In that way, it won't solve any problems, but it will hurt each other's self-esteem. What happens when a man keeps his wife?

4, don't involve relatives. The quarrel between husband and wife is purely their own housework, and don't involve other relatives. This is not only useless, but also makes the other person's good feelings for your loved ones disappear completely.

5. Husband and wife should not be judged by outsiders when quarreling. Don't criticize each other's faults in front of outsiders, and don't let outsiders judge who is right or wrong. This will make the other party feel humiliated and expand the contradiction.

6. Solve the quarrel between husband and wife as soon as possible. After a quarrel, whoever makes sense should take the initiative to apologize to the other party.

Of course, there is a more scientific theory, that is, the oak marriage quality evaluation of the University of Minnesota in the United States. His test went beyond the topic, and analyzed the husband and wife from eleven aspects, such as compatibility of personality, financial management, sharing and communication, conflict resolution, marriage expectation, leisure activities, relationship between relatives and friends, equality of roles, and education of children, and deeply analyzed the scientific reasons for your marriage conflict. A man who denies his wife will make her sick.

Husband and wife are in poor health.

Poor health of husband and wife: can husband and wife be cured?

The first thing to look at is what the reason is. In other words, what is the meaning of husband and wife? In fact, the couple's zodiac signs match. And the influence of this couple is:

First, violence, injury and punishment are all interactions between different five elements of the gas field. Because people are born with such strong information in time and space, they will form obvious gas fields when they get along, which is not conducive to marriage.

Second, the six reds, six evils and three punishments of the zodiac are not suitable for marriage, especially the six reds, followed by the six evils and three punishments, and sometimes they can even be ignored.

Therefore, the remedies are as follows: by wearing feng shui, and according to the individual's zodiac; It is suggested that the phaseless copper furnace must be equipped with a pair of mascots. After the wife lost her husband's daughter.

Poor health of husband and wife: several phenomena of mutual resistance between husband and wife

Several phenomena of mutual restraint between husband and wife

Marriage harmony is what every couple yearns for, but it is actually difficult to achieve. Because of numerology or feng shui, there will be many problems in marriage. There is a phenomenon of mutual restraint between husband and wife.

Teacher Liu Heng once had such a prediction case. 37-year-old John Doe has been married three times. Her first husband, an electrician, was married for two years and was electrocuted at work. The second husband got married for a year, suffered from cerebral hemorrhage and died suddenly. Then she got married for the third time, and this time she was killed in a car accident.

Then, she is regarded by all insiders as her husband's fate and a super jinx that can bring bad luck to men. Since then, she has stopped showing up among friends and relatives, and basically kept herself at home without any contact with the outside world. If she is not Foucault's fate, who will believe it?

According to the traditional numerology in China, both husband and wife help each other. Or a wife's life and a husband's life. Let's talk about the interaction between men and women first.

We all know that men are yang and women are yin; If Anonymous's numerology presents more yang factors, when she is combined with a man with strong yang, then she can't reach the realm of "* *", because both of them are very yang and can't achieve complementary effects. So we will see why some women want to be men. Why is there * * sex? * * It is often the side with more positive factors in numerology that plays the role of "male" in sex. The man who lost his wife led an unhappy life.

If there are many yin factors in numerology, when he is combined with a normal woman full of yin, he can't reach the realm of "* *", because both of them are very yin and can't reach the realm of complementarity.

We also see that some men want to be women, and we also find that the "woman" among men is this man who lacks masculinity. Poor health after marriage is a kind of mutual restraint.

It can be seen that men are not necessarily yang, and women are not necessarily yin. From the perspective of yin and yang, if men and women don't match, then obviously one party will "gram" the other. The performance is that men and women have different personalities, different opinions, * * not * *, and quarreling endlessly.

Another point is that husband and wife attach great importance to each other's lives, that is, for example, men are pines and cypresses, women are roadside soil, and they are all considered wooden soil, so men deny their wives. Mr. Liu Heng will talk about this problem that everyone is interested in.

You should know that "roadside soil" and "pine and cypress trees" are the fate of listening to songs, and such a life is two years. Then we can imagine, on average, at least 30 thousand people are born a day, and how many people will be born two years later. Can we all say that people born in these two years have the same fate? The answer is impossible. Therefore, it is a kind of 60 tones, which come from the year of birth and represent the fire, water and earth of Jin Mu in the five elements. It is unreasonable to say that it is acceptable to both sides.

But there are still many people who have been using this method to determine whether men and women have the same fate. Although it has been used for thousands of years, it is not so comprehensive and can be used as a reference. But if it is not feasible to take him as the final decision, women must stay away from men and women.