In fact, the whole society is addicted. How to recognize and treat three chronic diseases in contemporary society?

Addiction, compulsion and dependence are also called the three chronic diseases in contemporary society.

People are very disgusted with internet addiction, mobile phone addiction and game addiction. In fact, we are all addicted, but we have different concerns.

From this perspective, Internet addiction, cell phone addiction and game addiction are not terrible.

The terrible thing is that we don't know that it is caused by inner anxiety, anxiety, confusion and boredom.

Tracing back to the source, where do people's inner anxiety, uneasiness, confusion and boredom come from?

I want to introduce something here, and I believe everyone will be inspired and rewarded.

Each of us goes through nine periods in our life, namely, fetus, infancy, childhood, adolescence, adulthood, parenthood, old age and retrogression.

Of the nine stages in this life, the first five stages have great influence on life, that is, from fetus to adolescence, from October of pregnancy to 19 years old. It takes nearly 20 years for a person to gradually form his own thinking mode, that is, habits, words and deeds, and ways and means of accepting people and things, and then form a set of his own mental mode or thinking program.

When there are relatively many painful and failed procedures in this person's life experience of twenty years before his death, then this person will often feel anxious, uneasy, confused, bored, idle and have no future. This is also a serious lack of heart.

On the contrary, when this person has more happy and successful procedures in the first 20 years of life, then this person will always be positive, sunny, responsible, enterprising, valuable and secure, and full of confidence and hope for the future of life. This is also the expression of heart and foot.

Then it is not difficult for us to see that a person's experience in the first 20 years of life will directly determine his life trajectory and results after the age of 20.

If a person's life is regarded as 100 years old, then the first 20 years of life will determine the last 80 years of life.

This is the important core theory of "Destiny Procedure" and "Destiny 28 Law" put forward by Mr. Liu Yangchun, the famous founder of China Heart Engineering.

Therefore, in order to make children addicted to the Internet, mobile phones and games, parents' friends should help their children to set up correct life goals, cultivate a sense of responsibility and turn them into positive actions from an early age. This is the feasible way to prevent and control Internet addiction, mobile phone addiction and game addiction.

Of course, parents should set an example.

First of all, we should establish a correct life goal and have a sense of responsibility, so as to turn it into positive action and realize the happiness and excitement of life. Children will naturally see, feel and learn the power of example!