The ancients often said that "men are concave and women are convex, and if they are not widowed, they will be lonely"?

This question is quite interesting. The language charm of China people is universally acknowledged, and the creativity of working people is unimaginable. So, when I saw this proverb, I was thinking about its corresponding philosophy. After consulting the information, its meaning is really thought-provoking. ? The last sentence is easy to understand "widowhood", "widowhood", "loneliness" and "independence", which means that a person is "lonely and helpless", and the key point of understanding is "male concave female convex". What does this sentence mean?

Since ancient times, men have paid attention to indomitable spirit. In the eyes of China people, standing like a pine and cypress, sitting like a bell and walking like the wind are masculinity. A man who stoops all day and can't stand straight is somewhat "obscene" to outsiders. Such a person is usually not the object of a girl's mate selection. ? Secondly, boyfriend and girlfriend have another meaning, that is, personality. Traditionally, men should be "strong" and be able to support their families. A man who has accomplished nothing and is not self-motivated is destined to be despised by girls. ?

First of all, for women, "convex" pays more attention to shape, "concave and convex" can be used to describe a beautiful woman, while paying attention to "convex" means that this woman is too "plump", a gentle and graceful lady and a gentle gentleman. A woman with a juryman face is naturally hard to be welcomed by men. ? Secondly, in China's traditional thought, "men are strong and women are weak" is orthodox. Although there are many families with "weak men and strong women", they are not the mainstream after all. In this environment, women who are too strong will eventually lead to family breakdown and will not become "widows" after divorce. ? Existence is reasonable. Although proverbs are informal, they have profound meanings and are worth pondering.