A blessed person has three signs.

As the saying goes, "when the sky is crazy, there will be rain, and when people are crazy, there will be disaster." If you are alive, you must know how to be a low-key person. Arrogant people are always sharp-edged, so you should follow the old saying "shoot the first bird with a gun".

When a person is proud, don't be complacent; When you are frustrated, don't be pessimistic. Flowers bloom and fall, feng shui turns, ups and downs are life, people are on high places, equal with others, and help others; When people are in the low places, they accumulate a lot of money and slowly gather blessings for themselves. When the blessings gradually rise, people will return to the high places.

A blessed person has three signs, which are "different" from ordinary people.

1, modesty.

Low water is the sea, low people are kings, and the humbler people are the nobler. A person who knows how to be modest is "a hundred rivers flow into the sea with great tolerance."

There is a story about a businessman who made a lot of money, but slowly found that his wealth no longer increased and he was short of money. So he ran to the temple to burn incense and kowtow, and asked the wizard in the temple to tell his fortune. The mage poured water for the rich businessman, and as a result, he poured water while talking. The water in the cup is full and still pouring out. The rich merchant was anxious: "Master, it's full, it's full." The mage smiled without a word, took out another cup, put it down and caught the overflowing water. The mage said, "Isn't this full?" The rich businessman has been sober, and since then he has lowered his posture and made many friends, giving generously. Many years later, the rich businessman became richer.

This story tells us that by lowering one's status, one can absorb the strengths of others and accumulate more wealth. Like the sea, it is low, but full of rivers from all directions.

A blessed man is humble because he puts himself low and others high. Let the wisdom and wealth of others "flow" to yourself.

Modest people, of course, are not resigned to their fate, but humble and persevering in dealing with all changes. Low-key, but not humble as dirt.

2. Self-discipline.

A self-disciplined person knows what he should and shouldn't do. Self-discipline is the principle of a person's life and the embodiment of noble character.

Self-discipline is to do one thing well for ten years and show your value with the tenacity of life. A person, the more persistent, the more successful; The harder you work, the luckier you are. A man who gives up halfway, no matter how clever, will accomplish nothing.

Self-disciplined people have achieved a little, but they don't show off. Even if it is successful, it will not make people feel superior. It is "arrogance" that binds itself, not only from living habits, but also from spiritual and moral sentiments.

Blessed people are self-disciplined because they know how to control their temper and wealth, know how to give up, don't take ill-gotten gains, and don't emit "inexplicable fires." No matter what you do, you can advance and retreat freely and accept it with a good attitude.

3. respect.

Respect for others means respect for yourself. Leaving a way out for others is the highest wisdom in life. Forgive others and forgive others, reason gives three points, and irrationality takes three steps.

Buddha said: All beings are equal. A person who doesn't know how to respect others will isolate himself and get no help from the nobles. You must know that "everyone gathers firewood and the flame is high." No matter how powerful you are, you can't compare with the strength of the masses.

The reason why a blessed person respects others is that he knows how to "use his own strength", establish his prestige and let more noble people help him.

In fact, blessed people, first, know how to receive blessings; The second is to insist on blessing; The third is to share blessings with others.

Things are like a plate of xinqi, 30 years in the East and 30 years in the West. If you fail, you will not be discouraged, and if you succeed, you will not be proud. Stick to your own direction, share your happiness, treat everything well, and give up some blessings, and you will gather more blessings.

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