Are you picky about accepting seme? What are the procedures?

If it is a formal seme, it will be very troublesome:

1. Parents of both parties meet and exchange invitations and genealogy (if one's parents are gone, please invite a prestigious elder at home).

2. Agree on the ceremony process and time of both parties.

3. Send invitations to invite relatives and elders of both parties to participate in the activities.

On the day of receiving seme, a commendation ceremony was held.

1) The elders of the family sang songs and reported to the people on both sides of the strait who attended the ceremony;

2) Parents burn incense, offer wine and learn from their teachers.

3) seme burns incense, pours wine and worships heaven and earth.

4) the adopted son pours tea for the adoptive father to recognize the father; Three kowtows;

5) The adoptive father drinks tea, gives red envelopes and helps his son.

6) The adoptive father led his adopted son to visit his elders.

7) The elders of the family wrote the name of their son into the genealogy.

8) Politeness. Everyone eats together and comes back drunk.