What do you mean early marriage is not good?

Some young people just got married at the age of 20, and some of these marriages were facilitated by an accidental opportunity; Some introduce love at first sight, soak in love, and combine without test; Some are innocent, ignorant and anxious to get married. Because of young age, immature psychological development, unable to cultivate feelings and do not know how to take care of each other, it is very easy to lead to the breakdown of marriage.

Young people should start their careers before they get married. When they achieve something in their careers, they are a little older, more stable in temperament, and their feelings are gradually strengthened, so they have certain economic conditions. At this time, marriage is often a happy marriage.

2, affect work and study, hinder success.

Both men and women, in their youth, are inevitably faced with love and marriage problems. If they don't handle it well, they will either lose their careers and ruin their happiness, or they will get neither.

Young people should respond to the call of the party and the country, marry late and have children late, study hard and work hard when they are young and full of energy, and strive for early results and more results, so as to make due contributions to the modernization of the motherland.

3, affect physical and mental health

Youth is the golden age of life with the strongest energy, the strongest memory, long knowledge and learning technology. A person's energy and time are limited. If you get married too early, you will be distracted by your family. Besides, you have to work and study, and you will feel overwhelmed.

Adolescence is an important period of physical growth and development. If you get married before your development is fully mature, your future development will be affected. Early marriage also has a negative impact on psychological development. Because both sides are very young, they don't know that they should respect and care for each other and sublimate their feelings after marriage. On the contrary, he is full of childishness, arguing endlessly whenever he meets a little thing and refusing to give in to the other side. Other men don't understand the woman's physiological characteristics, such as demanding sexual life during menstruation and forcing rude sexual behavior, which is very unfavorable to her physical and mental health.

4. The economic burden is too heavy

It is not easy for young men and women to form a family. Nowadays, young people have low income, poor economic conditions and no foundation. If they don't manage their families diligently, they will have financial difficulties and even quarrel over economic problems, which will affect their feelings. There are also young people who talk about ostentation and extravagance when they get married, do not hesitate to borrow money to do big things, owe outstanding debts after marriage, and have to tighten their belts to live, which has brought great pain to themselves and a heavy burden to the family economy.

5. Heavy mental burden

It is normal for some contradictions between husband and wife to appear in daily life, but people who marry early often can't handle the contradictions in husband and wife's life well, which will affect their feelings and bring adverse effects on work, study and spirit. Therefore, it is better to get married early than late. When both men and women are mature, they can handle problems calmly and have a certain source of income and housekeeping skills. Then they will get married again, with no or little misfortune and trouble.