Break up in a rage, what are the ways to save each other?

In the process of love, there will inevitably be contradictions and misunderstandings between men and women. More often, it's because both parties are angry, and it's easy to do impulsive things and say hurtful things, among which "breaking up" is the most common situation. In fact, both sides have feelings and no one wants to break up. Then, if they break up in anger, they can use the following three tricks to save each other.

1, analyze the reasons.

If you want to recover after breaking up, it is most important to analyze the reasons for breaking up. Do you want to know why we broke up? What caused you to break up? Is it because of family discord between the two sides, or your personality, or some realistic conditions, and so on. If you find the reason, you should solve it in time, don't procrastinate and communicate well. Only by finding the reason can we prescribe the right medicine and let the feelings have room for recovery. And you have to think about what will happen next time if you make up, can you return to the original state? Don't just get back together for a long time, because this kind of thing leads you to break up again.

Step 2 improve yourself

You should strive to improve yourself and make yourself more attractive, so that the other person will have a greater chance to meet you. If you have really broken up, try to be friends first, and then attract each other twice by improving yourself, so as to save each other. If the two sides can still be friends, it means that the previous feelings are not broken, then you must seize the opportunity to change yourself at this time.

3. Learn to admit mistakes

The most common thing in feelings is to learn to admit mistakes. Men and women sometimes have to learn to admit mistakes properly. Since you want to save this relationship, it means that you are still attached to ta. Learning to admit your mistakes is a compulsory course in love. Don't quarrel or even fight with your loved ones because of a trivial matter. This is absolutely unacceptable. Learn to put down your posture and take the initiative to admit your mistakes. It should be noted that we must find a good time to admit our mistakes.

Give an example of a friend around you.

Beckham is a designer in a foreign company, and Xiaoli is a sales manager. They have been working in Beijing, but due to job transfer, Xiaoli is going to work in Shenzhen for a while. She has never been apart for so long. At first, she could adapt. Slowly, the two have been quarreling, and Xiaoli is not answering the phone. Beckham didn't see any hope in this relationship, so he broke up.

I just said that I was calm for a week after breaking up. Beckham regretted the good old days and decided to get Xiaoli back, but knowing that it was useless to pester her, he decided to chat with Xiaoli as an ordinary friend.

Through two people's hobbies, we can get closer to each other, let Xiaoli feel Beckham's concern and consideration for her, and slowly let Xiaoli feel dependent. Beckham seized the opportunity to express his mistake of breaking up first in a romantic way, and apologized to Xiaoli. Finally, after being forgiven by Xiaoli, the two made up.

In a word, attitude determines everything. No matter whether the other person gives you a look or a sneer, you have to bear it. If you do something wrong, you need to be punished anyway.