What does my boyfriend mean when he says I'm independent?

Hello, my boyfriend said that you are very independent, which means that you are a good girl, and you can do everything by yourself without relying on others.

As time goes by, more and more women find that no one can really feel their feelings except themselves, and no one can replace them to fight against the years.

In this life, only being yourself is the confidence to settle down and the only way out.

As a result, more and more women began to wake up and vowed to be "unique". Everything is secondary except concentrating on making money.

So, what should a truly independent woman look like?

1, independent women are the most beautiful and confident.

The real beauty comes from Uneri, not to make others think I am beautiful, but to think I am beautiful myself.

The world never lacks young and beautiful women, but they are beautiful only because they are young. And your beauty is because of your confidence. This kind of beauty is permanent and will only become more and more charming with the growth of age and experience.

Because self-confidence can change people's appearance, not only make our mood better, but also make us embrace life more enthusiastically.

Because of self-confidence, you will find yourself more and more radiant, and your colleagues and friends around you are more willing to be close to you, because you bring people a good impression. This is a lasting virtuous circle, and your life is getting smoother and smoother.

What really makes you stand out from the crowd is often not your erect nose, pouting lips and heavy eyebrows, but your steadiness and comfort. The true temperament is hidden in the gestures and exudes from the inside out, which is the most charming charm of women.

2. An independent woman has the strongest heart.

A truly independent woman often has a very strong heart. They have seen through men's fickle feelings, experienced the coldness of the world, and can still see their best selves and a better life.

After experiencing hesitation, frustration, helplessness and despair in life, women with different personalities will realize that only true independence can make their hearts stronger and fearless of all kinds of ups and downs in life.

They are self-disciplined, spiritually free and full of wisdom. In the face of men's abandonment, they are disheartened and give up decisively. In the face of heavy and complicated work and life, they roll up their sleeves and tie up their ponytails. They are as independent as men and never get tired.

A person with a strong heart, no matter what the circumstances, will get hope in despair, get light in the dark, and eventually become a woman who is extremely powerful and envied by all.

A truly independent woman, marriage is not a necessity.

There is a classic saying in Carnegie's book "Women's Patterns Decide Results" that is worth all women to taste:

"Women who are economically independent have their own ability to create happiness and do not need to please and rely on men. Marriage is just icing on the cake for them. "

A truly independent woman will not be a prisoner of marriage, thinking that a woman is complete only when she is married. Everything they say and do is just to please themselves and manage themselves. Freedom and happiness are the first choices in life. If a marriage is not good, then all the people and things that make you unhappy must be resolutely abandoned.

Many marriage tragedies begin with the obsession with marriage and end with the resentment of both sides, but there are many scars in the middle. Since then, they have never recovered. Looking back, most of their lives are over.

Since ancient times, marriage has always demanded too much of women, but nothing of men. The cleverest woman's way is to lower her expectations of each other, manage herself well, please herself, and stop attaching to and pleasing men. Don't lose yourself, try to improve yourself and let yourself have an infinite heart close to wisdom.

To be a modern and independent new woman, the best state is: not confused, not trapped in love, not afraid of the future, not thinking about the past, full of stories on her face, calm inside, doing what she likes, loving the person she likes, and living exquisitely.