There are only leftover women in the world, and there are no leftover women.

I listened to the radio in the car that day, saying that 27 years old is a leftover woman. To put it bluntly, the cucumber vegetables are cold. I suddenly felt particularly scared. I'll be 27 years old in a flash. I have worked in single dog for so many years. What if you are single all your life? I have to say that the circle of friends around me is not a show of love or a baby. As single dog, you can only bask in pets.

? Little J, she is my primary school classmate. At present, her most important task is blind date. She takes photos five times a week, but there is nothing suitable. She told me that the road to blind date was too rough, and the frequency of this photo was too high, so I didn't feel it. She doesn't know what to look for. She just wants to find a Handan person with a simple family, honesty and responsibility. She didn't even ask the man to have a house and bring his own car of about 65,438+10,000 yuan, provided that the man has a renovated house with all kinds of household appliances. If the man has no room, the money may become a down payment. Anyway, getting married with such a generous dowry is her parents' love for their daughter. Parents just want to see their daughters get married and live a happy life. Moreover, I can add more in my own ability and ride a donkey.

She is also very anxious. She has never been seeing anyone. Her sister has been married until she has not settled down, which has become a heart disease for her parents. What if I don't get married all my life, she said, I can get a doctorate. I will forget this idea. It's a little difficult for Cobb to have such an IQ.

02

Little b belongs to the beauty of' 83. By her own efforts, she has been mixed into the level of sales manager, with high salary and good treatment. She also gets along well with her colleagues. Her goal this year is to buy a small apartment and one bedroom in Langfang, at least to give herself a place to stay. From 17 years old to now, the only regret is that I haven't got married yet. She wants to get married. She has been single for too long. She said she was getting more and more lonely, especially lonely. Sometimes it's harder to accept another person This position is very important, because it will be used for a lifetime, so it is better to lack it than to abuse it. She is willing to wait. According to the fortune teller, she will meet the man who got married for the first time, tall, handsome, rich and simple. I think whether I am 27 or 37, I must look forward to this love like 18.

? For some women, there are no leftover women at all, and women are not commodities. How can they be left behind? She has always maintained a good life and has time to practice yoga, watch movies and read books. A person can also live a full life.

? She said, quietly practicing yourself is for the better person to appear, and I hope that when the right person sees her, she will not look haggard because of waiting. But to see the calmness and calmness after many years.

03

Let's talk about little u again. She is a good girl at home. As far as I remember, I was in high school. I should take a bath in the bathhouse or ask my mother to rub it for me. The parents are very fond of this daughter. She really hasn't experienced anything. It can be said that it is a flower in the greenhouse. The only headache facing her now is to find a partner. As a 27-year-old girl, she found that there are many boys on blind date, but the condition is that one is not as good as one. Now even the most basic height requirements can't meet her. She is 1.70 meters tall and wants to find a date of 1.80 meters.

She also has a good job. She is a civil servant and works in a township food and drug administration. It's just that I've hardly been in the city, and many blind date people haven't heard from me after reading it. Ask the feedback from the introducer again. It is inconvenient not to like working outside the city. Don't say anything more.

In high school, a boy liked her and wrote her a love letter. When her mother learned about it, she was very angry and told her to break up with that boy and study hard. Later, the boy was admitted to Beijing, and there was no contact between them. She stayed in Shijiazhuang.

Every blind date, her mother will follow, saying that she must go through the mother-in-law first, so that her mother can look pleasing to the eye. Many times, she listened to her mother's opinion on the boy, and it was up to her mother to decide whether she could continue to associate. Suddenly I feel that this mother is so powerful that she can even help with the wedding. Sometimes her mother is so anxious that she wants to fuck herself. This girl is so stupid that she needs to be taught to speak sentence by sentence. I'm afraid I was wrong.

? A word from her mother, you said that when I was in high school, I told you not to fall in love, and you talked about it. Now, let you fall in love, you say no, you child, how can you grow up and fall behind? What an endless heart.

I think her mother cares too much in some ways. People are free and should have their own independent thoughts. Everything depends on her mother. What else can she do? She is like a puppet.

04

One of my daughters is very young and often plays together. When I return to Handan, I like to visit her. I got a call from her that day and I was getting married. I said, so soon. She said that choosing to get married at the age of 28 is also a kind of courage, and I heard a lot of helplessness.

Seeing her again, a gentle girl, after years of marriage, has irreversibly turned into an angry young woman.

I asked her why she was in such a hurry to get married, and her answer was "afraid of the rest." She said that at that time, she was still tearing up her ex-boyfriend, who always put on a high airs. I work in Handan Museum. I am the only child in my family and have a house. The conditions are very general. But the mother-in-law's request is wonderful, asking her daughter-in-law to have formal jobs, such as civil servants, teachers and doctors.

The mother-in-law is strong, and the partner has no opinion. Although we talked for more than a year, we have never even met our parents. She was particularly tired in this endless tug-of-war. It was also at this time that she met her husband. Is it possible to buy a little warmth when people lack love? Maybe she wants to escape from that relationship too much and forget everything before through new feelings.

The family also put some pressure on her. Her parents' opinion is that "girls should get married when they are old, or they will be hard to find if they miss it, and there is nothing else worth doing."

Afraid of the rest, I feel that the more I go back, the better men will be picked out, and the rest are crooked melons and cracked dates. After evaluating their own value, they think that there is no possibility of getting better, so they don't deserve to meet a better half. If this person doesn't get married, I don't know how long it will take to meet the right person again, nor how long it will take. This time consumption is too great for life.

So women will panic because they want to get married too much. When a woman labels herself as a "leftover woman", she will feel sad about her marriage or having children.

I appreciate women's calmness after years. They can put their youth in the right place. After that, please feel free to move on. Don't look back, choose a free life.