Why do you say "how unlucky beauty is since ancient times"?

Therefore, if you are good-looking, you may not live well. If we don't cooperate properly, some will even have disasters. This is the truth that life is as thin as paper. ?

I think first of all, the evil of feudal society is a patriarchal society, men are the world, and women are just foil, so women can't get the main resources of society. To put it bluntly, women don't want to find a formal job and won't let you take the imperial examination, so women can't control themselves and increase the uncertainty of their fate. Therefore, the more women's swords in feudal society were in the hands of men, the less they could make their own decisions. Secondly, I think women themselves have feudal ideas. Many women always think that they should marry a man, dress and eat. After being fired, she thought that when a woman marries a man, she can dress and eat. In fact, she forgot that she also has hands and heads.

However, due to this feudal idea, women did not strive for progress, but only learned to be female workers and learn to cook, which led to their low ability and status and could only rely on men. Because they are incapable, their fate cannot be controlled by themselves. The more beautiful they are, the more likely they are to be contested, and of course, the greater their fate. Someone must ask, in today's society, men and women are equal, why is there blushing and life is not good? I think this is mainly caused by human factors. For example, when this beautiful woman just entered adolescence, she was surrounded by boys. They praised her for her beauty, making her feel that as long as she is as beautiful as a flower, she has everything, so that she can only focus on her appearance instead of cultivating her mind.

If you don't increase your wisdom and viability, you will lose your temper if you are swallowed up by men around you. If you want to be smart, you don't want to marry a good man. If you are a bad person, your life will be very bad. In fact, high-profile doesn't mean you have everything. The high appearance only shows that the outer packaging of your product is beautiful. However, if you open the outer packaging, the quality and technology of the product itself must be excellent. Otherwise, it's just a good-looking package without connotation. No one is destined to cherish you. In addition, beauty is fragile and beautiful, that is to say, beautiful people need to protect this beauty. Their families, society and themselves need to protect this beauty. A beautiful woman can easily pursue you and make you worry, while a girl can easily envy you. But if your family conditions are particularly good, others will be afraid of you.