Why do you always find beautiful women in Gao Fushuai when you are in love, and finally marry ordinary people?

Hello, I'm Zhou Xiaopeng, Lily's former dean. And a counselor. I use my professional knowledge to solve complex emotional and psychological problems.

Are you sure it's a majority? Ha ha! In fact, it may be an illusion, because many perfect-looking, golden-married combinations are considered normal. And a flower inserted in "cow dung" will be more eye-catching

Back to your question, why do beautiful women finally marry ordinary people?

I want to ask first, who is the ordinary person in this question? Is it ordinary? Or is the ability (financial resources) average?

If an ordinary-looking man marries a beautiful woman, everyone will guess that this man has either strong financial resources or extraordinary talents behind him. If so, it is normal to follow the principle that marriage is an exchange of interests, but each takes the balance he needs.

What if you are an ordinary person in an ordinary sense, but you marry a beautiful woman? This is worth discussing. I think there are three reasons:

First, insecurity-there is a theory in love psychology that the more beautiful girls get praise, the more they can't tell which is true and which is false, so it is difficult to gain a sense of security in intimate relationships. At this time, if a boy with average qualifications makes her feel a solid and reliable feeling of love, she is very likely to choose to combine because of this sense of security.

The second is to overestimate themselves-it is precisely because some girls know their physical advantages that they want to marry the best, so they think there will be better ones in the future. As we all know, in the marriage and love market, the shape advantage is the most difficult to preserve value, and it is decreasing year by year. So I missed it again and again, so I left myself, so I had no choice but to settle for the next best.

Third, the high-rise is too cold-a beautiful woman, especially a beautiful woman with high coldness, will make most men stay away from her, virtually reducing her choices. A mature man with both ability and wisdom often puts the woman's family background and education before her appearance when choosing a spouse. When this beauty realizes this cruel reality, she will also make more realistic choices.

Finally, I want to say that, in any case, it is not a tragedy for a beautiful woman to marry an ordinary person, as long as their feelings are harmonious and complement each other. After all, there are still many unattractive girls who are still up for grabs.

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