What do you think of the relationship between Wilson Tsui and Chen Meiling?

What impressed me most was Wilson Tsui and Chen Meiling.

If Zhang Wanting's strength is exposed and aggressive, then Wilson Tsui's strength, though imperceptible, is equally maddening.

Wilson Tsui and Chen Meiling have known each other for more than 30 years, got married 18 years, and separated for two years.

Wilson Tsui said it was because Chen Meiling didn't care about his health, knowing that he was recovering after the operation and that his life would be in danger, but he went to play mahjong.

Wilson Tsui gave Chen Meiling an ultimatum, telling her that if she played mahjong again, she would divorce. Chen Meiling quit, Wilson Tsui moved out, and she decided to get a divorce.

When I first heard Wilson Tsui say this, I felt that Chen Meiling had really gone too far. Her husband tried his best to save your life. You're dead. Why don't you make progress and take good care of yourself? When you play mahjong until you are in a good mood, have you ever considered that your husband is worried about your poor health?

But with the deepening of the plot, I found that Wilson Tsui's determination to divorce did not lie in Chen Meiling playing mahjong.

Wilson Tsui said that Chen Meiling was crazy at mahjong. He called the next morning, but the phone didn't answer and the message didn't return. They have argued about it countless times. Chen Meiling hesitated several times, and finally found the opportunity to explain-only once, to see his friend off.

Mahjong incident is just a symptom. The deeper reason is that Wilson Tsui thinks, "I did it for you, but you didn't listen to me. Since you have your own ideas and don't want to listen to me, then divorce. "

Behind "for your own good" lies "for my own good". What is "good for me"? Satisfy my desire for control and let me have an absolute say in this relationship. Everything I said is right. Listen to me.

If it is really "for your own good", Wilson Tsui should not insist on playing mahjong. He will put himself in his wife's shoes and consider why she plays mahjong once a week. He should be afraid that his wife is tired, take the initiative to do housework, learn to cook, and take care of his wife who is in poor health.

The Wilson Tsui we see is not like this. Instead, Chen Meiling took care of him, remembering that he couldn't eat spicy food. He fried tomatoes and eggs for him. When Chen Meiling was cooking, Wilson Tsui didn't know how to stand by and just chatted casually.

In this relationship, Wilson Tsui is the controller, the boss and the wife, as long as she obeys.

And Wilson Tsui subconsciously must have such an idea-the media reported that I spent all my money to save my wife, and I think so myself. I saved your health with money, so you should listen to me.

Wilson Tsui describes himself as a loving husband, and everything seems to be beneficial to his wife. But when you see Chen Meiling's "awkward words", you will understand that this is definitely not the case. Chen Meiling must have a lot of unspeakable grievances in this relationship.

The marriage of these two couples is actually quite suffocating.

Freedom, equality, respect and understanding, the topic of intimate relationship we have discussed countless times, are inseparable from these concepts, but most people are hard to realize the pressure they bring to their partners in intimate relationships.

I sincerely hope that through the 8-day trip of Goodbye Lover 2/KLOC-0, Zhang Wanting can truly understand what love is, and Wilson Tsui can understand the needs behind accusing his wife.

Of course, only if we don't know enough, we should make some changes and really learn to respect our partners, can we gain a more harmonious and happy intimate relationship.