Puzzled little fortune teller

Watching birthdays before marriage is a feudal superstition. But for such things, the frequency of occurrence is very high. Especially in rural areas, any family who marries a daughter-in-law or daughter will habitually match a Chinese character. In fact, not many people care about accuracy, but there is such a process that many elders can feel at ease.

First, the marriage event, make your own decisions about the marriage event, make your own decisions. For things like marriage, you definitely need to make your own decisions. Don't believe in fate. The so-called fate is just that a person is not confident enough about himself. When a person can have enough self-confidence, it depends entirely on his own ability. Because marriage is such a thing, don't believe in fate, just believe in the firmness of their feelings.

Second, pay attention to feelings in marriage and don't believe in fate. Pay attention to feelings in marriage and don't believe in fate. Marriage was originally a matter for two people. If you believe in fate, it will not bring any benefits to your life. If you listen to the older generation watching birthdays, you can't stick to a relationship. Therefore, for anyone, if their date of birth can decide whether to get married or not, then there is no need to spend time getting to know someone in this era.

Third, the birthday cannot represent the happy birthday of the future marriage, and it cannot represent the happiness of the future marriage. Even if it is a figure of eight, any animal problem is very suitable, but not necessarily the relationship between two people will be good. For anyone, birthday only represents their own date of birth, so it can't be used as a standard for marriage.

The thinking of the older generation is actually more difficult to break. Only with the development of the times, the new generation no longer believes in this kind of thing and gradually forgets all feudal ideas. Only in this way will everything be broken slowly and it will take some time. As a young man, I certainly don't care too much about these.