Why is it difficult for rural boys to get a wife?

"Difficult to get married" is a long-standing problem for rural people today. Everyone who lives in the countryside knows that it is getting harder and harder to find a wife now. During the Spring Festival, "intimate relationship" also appeared in many rural areas, and many parents tried their best to get their sons a satisfactory daughter-in-law. But there are still many older men who don't have suitable partners. So what caused it! Experts have made some analysis on the difficulty of getting married. Do farmers agree?

① The bride price is heavy and the cost of marriage is high. Nowadays, the bride price is rising in rural areas, and the prominent problem of heavy bride price has caused many families with sons a headache. Now the cost of marriage in rural areas is getting higher and higher. The starting price of bride price is generally above 6,543,800 yuan, and even a car and a house are required. For ordinary families with middle income, the burden is too great to bear. Even some areas pay attention to "three catties and three liang", "motionless", "colorful and a little green" and so on. Many marriageable young men finally gave up the idea of getting married because of the "sky-high bride price".

② The ratio of male to female is unbalanced. In the past, the concept of rural people was feudal, and they always preferred boys to girls, so there were more boys in rural areas. Coupled with the heavy economic burden and other factors, rural people dared not have too many children. As long as they were boys, there were even fewer girls. Therefore, there are more young men than young women in rural areas. It is becoming more and more difficult for rural marriageable young people to find wives in the village.

③ Life flow and concept change. After the reform and opening-up, China's economy has developed at a high speed, and the speed of population movement has accelerated. The thinking concept of rural girls has also changed. Many girls who have entered the age of marriage choose to go out to study, work and start a business. Many girls don't want to stay in the countryside to farm after entering the city. The siphon effect of urban living environment and quality of life on rural girls is increasingly prominent. It is becoming more and more common for migrant workers to form inter-provincial marriages. So there are fewer rural girls. So it is more difficult for rural boys to find wives in the village.

There are more and more bachelors in rural areas now. If this trend continues, rural areas will face severe social problems in the future. However, some experts suggest that to solve this problem, we must give full play to the role of social groups, hold social gatherings in rural areas through marriage agencies and online information platforms, and increase the exchange opportunities of older men and women. Some experts also said that behind the difficulty of getting married in rural areas is the problem of economic and social development. Only by increasing farmers' income and coordinating development can the problem be solved. In addition, in the process of development, we should improve the public services for migrant workers and create conditions for them to establish marriage and family. What do you think of this! What do you think of these solutions mentioned by experts? If you have different opinions, please speak in the comments section.