When life is not smooth, how to resolve it?

Static method

The first trick: static method. Zeng Guofan believes that when a person encounters difficulties, his first reaction is to be upset and at a loss. At this point, if you can't calm down, you will lose your direction and can't tell the truth from the false.

Before the age of 40, Zeng Guofan was persecuted by villains, demoted and imprisoned three times. Every time a crisis comes, he can quickly turn the corner, which has a lot to do with his mentality.

In the adversity of life, Zeng Guofan thought it was a time to test a person's will. If you are depressed, degenerate and give up on yourself, good luck will slip away secretly. So you must try your best to control your inner desires and anxieties and let reason take the place of fear. Only in this way can you distinguish right from wrong and find a new solution.

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Dynamic method

The second measure: dynamic method. This method is actually to let yourself take the initiative to find the source of unhappiness, to find all kinds of people who can help you, to choose the person who is most helpful to you, and to ask him to help you out of the trough of life.

Every time Zeng Guofan goes against his will, he gets help from noble people, such as Zhang Mu, Minister of Military Affairs, and Prince Gong. When Zeng Guofan was squeezed out and suppressed many times, they all appeared in time to solve their difficulties.

Of course, Zeng Guofan can get the help of these characters, which also has a lot to do with his usual personality. He believes that in life, we should do more icing on the cake and less things that hurt people. In this way, when they do not do well, people will naturally lend a helping hand.

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Strike method

The third measure: fight. This is a turning point. Zeng Guofan believes that when a person encounters a bad situation, it is the best policy to resolve it. If he can take the opportunity to become a winner in life, that is the best policy. Therefore, every time Zeng Guofan comes out of a bad situation, he will be promoted by one level or even several levels.

Is Zeng Guofan lucky? Of course not. In his view, life is a long journey. If you don't dare to take a step after stumbling, you will never reach the end. Therefore, we must learn layout and strategize, and when the bad period has passed, it is time to harvest.