Why can't children take their mother's surname?

First, children with different surnames will make brothers and sisters less United. Many families that let their children take their mother's surname have two or three children, and parents choose one of them to take their mother's surname. Although the surname is only a symbol of address, it will accompany a person's life. Just like when we meet a stranger, if he has the same surname as himself, he will say, "Oh, this is fate, we are a family!" " A stranger with a surname will feel kind for no reason. If our own two children or three children don't have the same surname, will there be psychological barriers between children? Therefore, children are not a surname, and some follow their father and some follow their mother, which may lead to disunity. It is estimated that parents do not want to see it.

Second, children who take their mother's surname will be excluded by others. There will be a small society like us adults in the children's world. Children will have more complicated interpersonal relationships when they arrive at primary school or junior high school or senior high school. Everyone has a father's surname, only your child has a mother's surname, so some children may say some gossip, such as are you your father's own son? Because taking the father's surname is a long-standing tradition of our nation, we will attract some criticisms if we break through this tradition, and it is our children who bear these rumors.

Third, the father's network resources may not be enjoyed by children. Every child will have relatives and friends on both sides of mom and dad, such as aunt, uncle, uncle, menstruation and so on. In general, children take their father's surname. After all, everyone is like this, and relatives and friends will get used to it. If your child takes the mother's surname, my father's relatives may have a little opinion of the child, or even be alienated. Think about the uncles' brothers and sisters all surnamed Li, and only your surname is Wang, which may have an impact on the children's future relatives and interpersonal relationships.

Fourth, the distribution of property, I am afraid there will be disputes. It is a tradition for children to take their father's surname, and it is natural to inherit the father's family property. If your child takes his mother's surname, I'm afraid someone with ulterior motives will step forward and interfere when the child inherits the property, causing unnecessary trouble to the child. The degree of equality between men and women is getting higher and higher, but I think children should take their mother's surname seriously.