A friend sent a message: yellow and green don't pick up, lend you something, how to break it?

A friend sends a message: I don't want to pick you up. I want to borrow something from you. If you don't want to borrow it, you can refuse it directly. Of course, I have to find a more tactful reason. I can say that I'm a little short of money recently.

Green and yellow indicate that the crops are not ripe, but the remaining grains have been eaten up. If someone sends you this kind of information, borrowing things from you is mostly borrowing money. It may be that my company's salary was used up last month, but my salary has not been paid this month. You can lend me some money first and pay it back to you after my salary is paid this month. A situation like this is really hard to shirk. But I really don't want to borrow it. Of course, the reason why I don't want to borrow it is mostly because the other party is not worth borrowing. In this case, it can be said that I have no money recently, or that my wife has all my money, and so on. As long as you say this, the other party will generally understand.

In today's society, borrowing money does have certain risks. Generally, when you borrow money, you are a grandson, and when you pay back money, you are a grandfather. After lending their own money, it is the date when two people agreed to pay back the money, but the other party did not pay back the money. At this time, we have to carefully remind others to pay back the money, and we are likely to treat each other coldly. I only met this situation when I was a student. The other person is a good friend I met in junior high school, but later, we gradually lost touch with each other. When I was in college, one day, he suddenly sent me a message saying that he needed money in an emergency recently. I thought we had a good relationship in junior high school, so I transferred him some money without saying anything. But I didn't expect people to change. I promised to pay it back after a while. But a long time has passed. He didn't have any news, so I took the initiative to send a message. After waiting for a long time, he didn't reply. Later, a lot of messages were sent one after another, but there was still no reply. It was like sinking into the sea, and finally I deleted it directly.

Since then, I have had a certain shadow on borrowing money. I won't borrow it whether you take it or not unless you are a friend who knows the root of the matter at this stage.