Why do you say that you should never borrow money from relatives and friends in your life?

It is also common to encounter difficulties and valleys in your life. It is said that money is not everything, but without money, you will find it difficult to do whatever you want.

Money is like a wall, which can help you block off a lot of troubles and pains and give you a good living environment; Money is like a key, which can help you open the door to success.

Zhang ailing said:? I like money, because I have never suffered from it, and I don't know its disadvantages, only its advantages. ?

It is said that money is the root of all evil, but everyone lives for money. With money, you can have confidence, live the life you want and protect your family.

In this life, don't borrow money from friends

In Animal World, played by Zheng, he did everything for his friends, sold all his houses, and then lent all his money to his friends. However, his friend ran away with the money and could not be contacted again.

For the sake of his seriously ill mother and his own survival, he boarded a cruise ship and began a cruise? Bet your life? Games. In this gambling game, there is no faith, everything is for money.

At the last moment, Zheng chose to leave the cruise ship with the money and abandoned Zheng who saved him from danger many times.

Finally, Zheng left the spaceship with his own information. He insisted on his own morality and devoted his life to maintaining friendship, but only saw all the weaknesses and greed in human nature.

Between friends, borrowing money will destroy friendship. Cherish lending money to your friends, and don't choose to ignore their friendship because of a little money, evasion and roguery.

A gentleman makes money in a right way. He can't just see the benefits, but sell his conscience and satisfy his desires with the friendship between friends.

If you are short of money once in your life, you can know that not all your friends are willing to help you save up, because the other side is also burdened with great responsibilities and pressures.

If a friend gives everything he has to save you from danger, don't run away, be grateful, give back more to his friends, and try to repay the debts you owe.

Even if you are short of money, you can't let your conscience and bottom line be missing.

In this life, don't borrow money from relatives.

Fan Meisheng in Ode to Joy is a glamorous urban white-collar worker, but behind her, she is constantly demanding of her parents. She has worked hard in Shanghai for many years, but she has no savings.

Parents always kidnap her with affection and let her buy a house for her brother. A person bears the responsibility of supporting his parents. No matter what difficulties there are at home, the first thing that comes to mind is her.

When the undeserving brother was detained in the police station, the mother begged Fan to find a way with tears in her eyes and said? A brother like you, just as he borrowed it from you, I'll pay it back to you later when I have money! ?

But everyone knows this is a bottomless pit, right? Borrow? , there won't be? Or? Born in such a family, Fan's helplessness and despair can be imagined.

Yi Shu said? Remember to save money, so that if one day you lose someone's favor, you can worry about food and clothing, grieve for spring and mourn for autumn, and remember the past. ?

However, how can Fan have his own savings when he has such relatives? For the sake of his family, he was forced to be flustered and unable to live his own life normally.

I still remember a sentence that Fang Jin Si said in "Settle down": Friendship can break up, love can break up, affection, tell me, how should I break up? ?

Money can help relatives live a better life, but it makes them tired. Behind borrowing money is full of sadness and helplessness.

Borrowing money from relatives can also hurt family ties. Be kind to your relatives who lend money, and don't hurt your relatives who help you because of a little money.

Cherish those who are willing to lend you money.

In a variety show "Friends Listen Up" hosted by He Jiong, an audience told the story of a friend who borrowed money and didn't pay it back, but he always had various reasons to deal with it.

In fact, all the money doesn't add up to much. The two get along well in other ways, but it is this money that has become a knot in his heart. What bothers him even more is whether it is necessary to stop this friendship for money.

Friends want money again, borrow it or not?

He Jiong said in the program:? You can't exchange your friendship in this way. ?

If a friendship can only be continued by one person's unrequited love, then it is not a real friendship, and the other person will not be your cherished confidant.

Sometimes, borrowing is not only money, but also a precious friendship and a silent concern. If they didn't realize this, they wouldn't have gone too far.

Lending money to a friend, whether the friend finally pays back the money, whether he knows how to be grateful and cherish, can see through a person's personality and a person's heart.

Of course, if a person is willing to lend you money and lend a helping hand when you are in trouble, please cherish him for a lifetime.

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In this life, please don't borrow money from relatives and friends.

When dealing with relatives and friends, the most important thing is to make each other comfortable. When you encounter difficulties, you should first try to go out through your own efforts, and don't ask others for help.

Borrowing money from relatives and friends may be beyond their ability. Lending it to you will put a lot of pressure on their lives. If they don't borrow it, they are afraid of ruining their friendship.

Once a good relationship is mixed with money, it will become less pure, so be careful to maintain this relationship.

When you borrow money, you must think carefully. You'd better rely on yourself before you have to, and don't embarrass others easily.

Once you borrow money from relatives and friends, please learn to cherish and be grateful for a lifetime.

Because, when you are in trouble, most people who are willing to help you are relatives and friends who really love you. In this cold world, the people who help you are also people who love and understand you.