My girlfriend's parents have always disagreed with our relationship. How can we fight for it?

I get along well with my girlfriend, but now my parents tell me that my girlfriend will scold me, and it's very ugly. At the same time, I found several fortune tellers who all said so. They no longer agree with us. I had a big fight with my parents about this. I think why do rural fortune tellers decide their marriage in this era? You know best whether two people are suitable or not. But my parents believe this very much. They're afraid I'll have a little accident What should I do in this situation? thank you

A:

Please believe that love without parents' blessing, no matter how romantic, can easily become pale and powerless. Only by getting the nourishing love of family members can we reap the rest assured happiness. I suggest you shift your focus first, because the real cause of your pain probably comes from the problem of your relationship with your parents.

The survey shows that children with smooth communication and harmonious relationship with their parents will choose the opposite sex that their parents can accept as their love object, because they first accept their parents' values and understand their parents' temperament. Therefore, their love can often get the support of their families; And those children who have been lacking communication and full of contradictions with their parents because of the insufficient influence of their parents' companionship in childhood will regard love as a higher level of confrontation and look for people whose parents don't like it. The more their parents object, the more they want to be together.

So you have to see yourself first, whether you really love or resist your parents with love. If you are true love, you will try your best to persuade your parents when they object. Please believe that as long as you make your parents feel that your persistence is rational and mature, parents who love their children will eventually fulfill and accept your love. But if you are rebellious, if you don't communicate well with your parents since childhood, you may be desperate to avoid communicating with your parents and only care about love, which will make the situation worse, and finally you will be more and more tired of love.

Perhaps, behind parents' superstition and opposition, they are seeking children's attention and communication. what do you think?