The fortune teller is too soft, what should I do?

The so-called hard and soft life is inferred from the rich land where you were born. It depends on what is missing and what is supplemented in the five elements, and it cannot be generalized. Generally speaking, you'd better find a hard husband, but his hard five elements and your softness complement each other. If you lack soil, it must be hard, not bad. Regardless of science, numerologically speaking, if you happen to find such a husband, your health will gradually get better after marriage.