How should parents guide 18-year-old runaway children?

Every family's children are in adolescence, rebellious, sensitive in self-esteem and concerned about their own image. If children encounter all kinds of things that cannot be understood by parents, teachers and classmates, it is easy to make irrational behaviors. Parents should communicate from the child's point of view, understand her innermost thoughts, know what help she needs most, and take the child to do psychological counseling.

First, be a partner in children's growth. The first thing to do is to learn to make friends with children, have useful exchanges, understand their thoughts, and not interfere too much with the healthy, safe and beneficial things that children like to do. Children will also take the initiative to say it.

Second, as children grow up and enter adolescence, they are more willing to communicate with their peers. In addition to the tacit understanding between peers, it may be necessary to leave the small family circle and explore a wider world. From this perspective, parents should be happy for their children: they are trying to grow up.

Third, a good family life is a happy harbor and spiritual home for girls to grow up. When parents' married life changes, girls should be informed as soon as possible to ensure their normal life and maintain emotional communication. A warm family atmosphere can resolve the contradiction between parents and children, make adolescent girls feel safe, and prevent teenage girls from rebelling and deviant behavior.

Fourth, the relationship between parents and rebellious children should be mutual respect and support. Parents should understand teenagers' psychological education knowledge, express their love for their children as much as possible, keep effective communication with their children, put themselves in their shoes, understand their children and find the crux of the problem. To master communication skills, children should not be educated with emotions, which will lead to more resistance. To master communication skills, children should not be educated with emotions, which will lead to more resistance.

Fifth, adolescent rebellious children seem to have personalities and opinions, but they are actually very fragile and confused. They are like lost lambs standing at the crossroads, unable to do anything about the temptations and troubles around them, so they choose willfulness. ?