Fortune teller Lin _ 37, storyteller Lin Jiazhai

First of all, you should distinguish the relationship between forest "fate" and "luck"

Life is the basic characteristics that accompany birthdays: extroversion and introversion.

Luck is influenced by the environment in which you grew up, and the same life will have different luck.

Fortune-tellers can only count people's lives, which is also the conclusion that can be drawn through long-term observation of a person.

Your girlfriend may be a self-centered woman, and it is understandable that she wants to live a free and unrestrained life. Your family just thinks from your point of view. After all, they are thinking of you. But two people live by mutual understanding and tolerance.

Your girlfriend has shortcomings, and she must also have advantages. Remind the family to see her good points. It is ridiculous to rely on the words of a fortune teller.

No one in the world is made for each other, but they all understand each other, tolerate each other, change each other, and then gradually harmonize. These elders are experienced people and should be the clearest.

And you, on the basis of these, can talk to them in depth and tell them some of your understanding of life and life. When you get married, you will be a responsible and independent man, and many things they can't undertake for you. They are so worried about you, the main reason is that you haven't grown up, and you haven't been able to take on the responsibility of a family, but the more so, the slower and more deformed your growth will be.

Having said that, I hope I can help you.