I feel that life is so monotonous and boring now.

The phenomenon that life is boring is actually very common to us. Basically, each of us will feel this way after doing the same thing for a long time. When you feel that life is boring, it must have been like this for some time. When our life is unchanging and nothing new, just like a program set by a computer, day after day, year after year, it is time to adjust this life. How to adjust it?

Do what you want, do what you want, see what you want, in line with the principle of not hurting or breaking the law. The so-called "28 law" is very important for regulating people's hearts. Because you are always in a state of being, people's hearts will become rigid and their sensitivity will decrease, thus affecting their emotions. After work, we should cultivate hobbies, such as playing the piano, playing chess, painting, poetry, wine and tea, pick what we like, invite friends to share it, and do something that seems useless but beneficial.

Learn to love yourself. Buy yourself at least one gift every week, big or small, as long as you like, it can be your favorite clothes, books, flowers, ice cream and so on. Eat your favorite dishes once a week to satisfy your appetite; Watch a movie you like every week; Meeting the relatives you miss most or the friends you admire most every week will make you feel loved, cared for and nourished, and make you feel alive.

For our life, we still need to try something new by ourselves. Although these new things are small differences, they are still very meaningful to us. Subtle differences can sometimes bring people new feelings.