"Hard Sister" Amanda: Being loved by Li Xiang, she stood out for Zhang Ziyi and finally turned over.

April is the sunny month of love. In this beautiful April, the fifth season of my wife's romantic trip arrived as scheduled.

Nana, the former head of the team, was unable to participate in the recording of the fifth season because she was going to have a second child. The program group invited Tamia Liu, the "national wife", to replace Nana as the head of the group.

In the fifth season, there are many guests to watch, including Chen Jianbin and Angel who love to write poems, raymond lam and Zhang Xinyue who wander in the sweetness of the wedding, Wang Xinjun and Amanda who are "overbearing presidents", and Olympic champions Zou Kai and Zhou Jie.

Amanda is a domineering actress with a gentle heart. She also realized the true meaning of love with her own emotional experience. She once said, "A woman must first learn to love herself if she wants to win the love of a man."

What Amanda has experienced, so that she can fully understand in love. To solve this problem, we have to start with her debut experience.

0 1. How can plum blossom fragrance not be cold to the bone?

1995 Amanda, aged 17, as a Peking Opera graduate of Yingkou Opera School, went to Japan to perform with the Liaoning Provincial Friendship Exchange Group.

This foreign performance broadened her horizons and increased her knowledge. He has traveled to 26 cities in Japan and performed more than 40 consecutive performances. He never shouted bitterness and honed his iron will.

A year later, she was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama to study stage plays. Together with Zhang Ziyi, Mei Ting, Ceng Li, Yolanda, Hu Jing, Zhang Tong and CoCo Lee, they were called "Eight Golden Forks of Chinese Opera".

In 2000, Amanda was discovered by the famous director Chen Guo, and starred in the film "Durian Drifting". This film won her many awards, including the Taiwan Golden Horse Award for Best Newcomer. It is no exaggeration to describe her overnight fame.

It was also in this year that Li Houlin, a 27-year-old young man, started a vigorous business in Beijing. A diamond boutique named Hengxin Jewelry opened in the bustling area of Beijing Oriental Plaza.

Jewelry and diamonds are a profiteering project, which is not only the darling of the wealth circle, but also makes many people in many entertainment circles feel jealous and envious.

Amanda, who won the Golden Horse Award for Best Newcomer at that time, never imagined that in the next few years, he would be involved in a "love triangle" with Li Houlin and Li Xiang.

02. I worked hard to manage love, but Li Xiang took it away.

In 2004, Li Houlin, a bachelor, had a successful career. This year, Mr. Li's career and peach blossom are very prosperous, and the whole person looks high-spirited and full of energy.

At that time, 22-year-old Amanda had just won the Golden Horse Best Newcomer Award, and her face was full of tender green, which was also special in Innocent Girl.

Li Houlin is a famous businessman. When two people are together, whenever Li Houlin talks, Amanda always looks at him intently, as if there is no room for others in his eyes.

Gentle as water care, full of love. Because of this, Amanda is willing to cook for Li Houlin and change herself for Li Houlin.

Li Houlin, a native of Tianjin, likes to eat "jumping carp". She deliberately went to the restaurant to learn from the chef for a week, and then went home to practice again and again.

In his spare time, Li Houlin likes to appreciate calligraphy, painting and antiques. In order to have a common topic with Li Houlin, Amanda bought books to read and often fell asleep after reading them.

Amanda, who worked hard, was betrayed by Li Houlin.

Li Houlin is a "master of time management". Just after their first anniversary with Amanda, they got together with Li Xiang, the famous mouth of Hunan Satellite TV.

Amanda went out to work for a month, and Li Houlin was not idle. In the face of all kinds of courtship and courtship in Li Xiang, I completed the work of getting acquainted, knowing each other and proposing marriage in less than a month.

As soon as Amanda finished her work, she received a short message from Li Houlin: "No one can stop feelings when they come, and no one can stay when they leave. I'm getting married. Let's break up. "

Amanda, who rushed back to her hometown in Beijing, cried for days and nights, and everyone lost weight.

Years later, Li Houlin's injustice to Amanda was finally condemned and rewarded. Li Xiang, a realistic woman, turned and married Wang Yuelun when her career went downhill.

Li Houlin realized that Li Xiang was such a woman, and he also lamented that it was better to find a woman from the street than Li Xiangxiang.

03. Meet again and again, and get black and blue all over again.

In June 2005, Li Houlin and Li Xiang got married in Beijing.

Amanda, who is at the bottom, is helpless and thin. At this time, Ada, the boss of Hongwentou in the Spring and Autumn Period, was so fond of jade that he couldn't bear to see the beauty fall.

At a dinner party, cloud-l said to Amanda emotionally, You don't have a boyfriend and I don't have a girlfriend, so let's be together.

After they were together, Amanda naturally became an artist of Hong Wentou in the Spring and Autumn Period. Although they are film and television peers, they also have different attitudes in their careers.

Despite this, Amanda made compromises again and again. At that time, she thought that men had the final say in their careers, because it affected their feelings and was not worth it.

In the days when there is cloud-l, Amanda is attached to cloud-l everywhere. She doesn't have to think when she goes out, and she has no opinion on major issues. Even if she has different attitudes, she will compromise.

If you don't break out in silence, you die in silence. Finally, they are filming the film "Piano of Steel", and they have a fierce conflict because of the advertisements in the film.

Piano Music is a literary film invested by Hong Wen in the Spring and Autumn Period. Ada believes that the most important thing for movies is to make money and insert advertisements. Amanda thinks this is a literary film, and too many movies will affect the viewing experience.

This time, Ada chose to compromise. Ada's compromise led to a dismal box office, while Amanda's victory led to the breakup of this relationship.

Amanda wanted to save Ada like she saved Li Houlin last time, until she saw the report that Ada had dinner with a mysterious woman and fell into love again.

Love failed again and again. As girlfriends, Zhang Ziyi and Tamia Liu couldn't stand it. Together they pulled Amanda out of the swamp of love.

You can scold Amanda, but you can never scold my friend.

Amanda, who has experienced two emotional failures, really became a "hate to marry a woman" this time. Watching her classmates step into the marriage hall one after another, she envied and hated her disappointment.

Although Amanda is a gentle little woman in her feelings, she is generous to her friends and always stands up for them.

You can scold Amanda, but you can't scold her friends.

Amanda is a famous "killing queen" in the entertainment circle. In the crew, when you meet an unprofessional actor, you just have a big mouth.

Once, Zhang Ziyi comforted Amanda who was lovelorn and invited Amanda to have dinner with some good friends.

During dinner, Amanda confided to her best friend Zhang Ziyi the pain of lovelorn, and heard several boys at the next table talking about Zhang Ziyi's scandal.

The speaker has no intention, but the listener has a heart. Zhang Ziyi told them these things out of thin air and didn't take them to heart at all, but Amanda was out of spirit.

Hearing others say that my girlfriend was angry with being lovelorn, I grabbed the bottle and rushed over to point to the noses of the gang and said that I was Zhang Ziyi's girlfriend. If you talk nonsense like this again, I'll be careful!

Pa, Amanda smashed the bottle on the table. Zhang Ziyi and some friends were dumbfounded, and several men were too scared to say anything.

Since then, speaking for friends has spread more and more widely, and the title of "hard sister" in the entertainment circle has spread like wildfire. It can be seen from this incident that the gentler the person, the more terrible the explosion.

Learn to love yourself to win men's love.

During the gap, Amanda shifted her focus to career development. Sister Tao and Six Hundred Miles to Fuyang are the main works of this period.

At that time, she also established a film and television culture company in partnership with her good friend Tamia Liu, which showed her excellent business acumen and extraordinary decision-making ability.

Once, the company jointly invested in a film, and when the film was shot to a third, Amanda took the risk of breach of contract and decided to change the hero decisively.

Tamia Liu thinks this decision is risky and will cost the company a lot. Amanda, who pursues perfection, disagrees and assures Tamia Liu that all the losses are on her own.

Amanda knew that Tamia Liu was in a difficult situation. In order to pay off Kelly's debts when her business failed, Tamia Liu was on the set almost every day, 365 days a year.

In order to make this film well, she mortgaged the property behind her friend Tamia Liu's back. Later, the film was released, and its reputation and box office were good.

From then on, Tamia Liu was impressed by Amanda, a gentle woman immersed in love, and sincerely trusted and admired her. The relationship between the two has also become a much-told story in the entertainment circle.

Amanda, who has a successful career, finally realized the true meaning of love at this time. It's really stupid to hide your true side in order to please men. Only when she learns to love herself first can she win the love of men.

Amanda, who understands the true meaning of love, is more assertive and self-disciplined. Beautiful love is already on the way.

06. Being surrounded and protected by love all the time.

20 1 1 Amanda participated in the filming of the anti-war drama "Independent Column" and met the actor Wang Xinjun. They met once, but they didn't really hit it off.

Wang Xinjun is seven years older than Amanda. On the set, Amanda was deeply impressed by the word "serious". Wang Xinjun is very impressed with Amanda, especially when they discuss the role, and they often like to call her "smelly boy".

A naughty and intimate name, the relationship between two people at that time, that's all.

It was not until the second year that the TV series "Independent Column" started shooting that the crew began to promote roadshows. As soon as they met, Wang Xinjun's "smelly boy" narrowed the distance between them.

In the long run, the two have become friends who move around quite frequently.

When he is free, Wang Xinjun will meet Amanda at the airport in advance, so he cares too much. Unfortunately, he was photographed by the media, and the photos of the two men taking a group photo at the airport were made public.

At this time, some media reported that Wang Xinjun had married the actor Tang Jing, didn't she? How did you get together with Amanda?

According to media reports, Amanda was labeled as a "third party", and the media claimed that Amanda was involved in the marriage of Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing.

Wang Xinjun stood up to defend Amanda's public voice, claiming that he had ended his marriage with Tang Jing in 2009. In order to protect his children, he had no choice but to make them public.

Amanda was also moved by this man's sincerity and sense of responsibility. After more than 600 days of sweet love, they finally entered the marriage hall. In the same year, Amanda announced the good news of pregnancy.

After marriage, while raising their children, they not only kept the sweetness of love, but also cooperated with the husband and wife files in the anti-war drama "Rivers and Mountains".

For so many years, Amanda has always said that her previous feelings were that she loved too much and cared too much. Now, she feels that she has been surrounded by love and protected.

Now, Wang Xinjun has turned into a "overbearing president" and staged a sweet love drama. In variety shows, it seems that the skill of coquetry is not lost to other couples.

Amanda has repeatedly said in public that it is true that my husband dotes on me, and he is quite used to me.

Amanda used her own experience to prove that women won't fall in love with you until you fall in love with yourself. Ignorant flattery and pandering will not win love.

It is false to say that you don't envy this kind of love.

This is the true meaning of love, the original appearance.