What do you think is the worst parenting advice of the older generation?

The worst parenting advice of the older generation:

1, the child can't hold it when crying.

Mothers are new mothers, and when they see their children crying, they will naturally hug and coax them to prevent them from crying all the time. At the same time, it is also to see if the child is uncomfortable. I think the child is crying for a reason. For example, it may be hungry, bitten by mosquitoes, or sick.

But the older generation always said, don't hold a child when he is crying, because the child is very smart, and once the child is crying, it is easy to form the habit of holding a child. After a long time, children often cry on purpose and let you hold them all the time. Although what the older generation said has some truth, it depends on the situation.

If the child is sick and uncomfortable, get the mother's attention by crying. If you don't see a doctor, check your child's physical condition. If you really have a fever, if you don't give your child a fever in time, it will lead to brain burning. There are many children with cerebral palsy in life, all because they had a fever when they were young and didn't see a doctor in time.

Therefore, for the sake of children's health, mothers have to take preventive measures. Although the child cries to hold the child, there will be situations that the older generation said. For the sake of children's health, we can't ignore their crying.

2. Eat salt before one year old.

Many old people are used to adding salt to their food early in order to let their children eat more. The older generation thinks that children always skip meals or eat less, which easily leads to malnutrition. Therefore, it is necessary to add salt to the child's diet as soon as possible to make the food more delicious. Children naturally like to eat more. But it is best not to eat salt before the child is one year old, otherwise it will pose a great threat to the child's health.

For example, let children eat salt early, and children will easily develop the bad habit of picky eaters when they grow up. It will also make children like heavy food. This is because they are used to eating salty food. When they grow up, foods with less salt can't meet their taste needs. If you want children to eat seriously, you can only add more salt when cooking. Eating like this for a long time will lead to the aggravation of children's dietary taste, which is very prone to the problem of getting angry.

For example, eating salt too early will damage the child's heart function. Because children under one year old have imperfect renal function, they cannot metabolize sodium out of the body in time. Eating too much salt will lead to a large accumulation of sodium in the body, which will lead to a large loss of potassium ions in the body and affect the health of the heart.

How do novice mothers raise their children correctly?

1, appropriately increase or decrease clothes.

Newborn children, like adults, should be given an extra one when it is cold and take it off in time when it is hot. Don't always think they are fragile and afraid of the cold. Dress children, just wear one more than adults. Wearing too much can easily lead to children catching a cold.

2. Cut your child's nails in time.

Children's metabolism is faster, so their nails grow quickly. Children like to scratch in their daily lives. If they don't cut their nails in time, it's easy to scratch their faces or body skin.