What is the wedding custom in Xiangfan?

First of all, two people should talk about friends and feel that they are almost suitable for each other before they can meet their parents. But there are rules for meeting parents. No matter which parent you meet first. Like meeting the woman's parents. The man should give four kinds of gifts, usually sugar, meat, wine and cigarettes. This is the courtesy of the older generation. Now that living conditions are good, you can generally buy some high-end cigarettes and gifts. The rest is to wait for the woman's parents to agree before you go to see the man's parents. This lady seems to want to buy something, too. This depends on the details. This woman is very simple and doesn't have much manners. After dinner, if you want to leave, the man's parents usually give gifts. Generally speaking, the amount of this gift depends on a person's financial situation. Some parents give 1000, some parents give jewelry and some parents give 500. Wait, but be sure to give it. The first time I went to my husband's house, my sister gave me 500 yuan and a gold ring. Some men don't know these manners. Maybe at the wedding reception or on the day of engagement. This woman is not too demanding. If not, there may be two reasons. First, you may not know this custom in Xiangfan. Only one son in the family doesn't care so much. The second is dissatisfaction with the woman. Or afraid of giving or not coming back, and so on. In some places, the man is asked to give a bride price, which may be given to the woman in the future. The man's parents have to discuss how much to give. How to give the law and so on. Secondly, the relationship between the two sides is stable during the period of talking about friends, and it is time to talk about marriage. If both men and women hold separate banquets (not in the same city), their parents will go their separate ways. If we hold a banquet together, for example, the woman has four tables, and she only gives four tables, and the gifts are separated. Whether the gift money is given to the new couple depends on the parents. Nowadays, many women ask men to buy a house and live by themselves after marriage. In fact, it still depends on the individual's economic ability. It doesn't matter whether parents buy a house or not. After marriage, you can live with your parents without spending your own money.