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Buddhist scriptures reveal the relationship between husband and wife (if you want to be happy in marriage)

Recently, the content about the relationship between husband and wife and family problems has increased in the forum. Sakyamuni Buddha tells about the relationship between husband and wife in the book Good Life. How do couples get along? Introduce to you:

A wonderful life. A husband respects his wife in five ways. What is a cloud? One is polite. Both of them are magnificent. Three people have food and clothing at any time. The four are solemn and timely. These five people were entrusted to this family. A wonderful life. Husbands respect their wives with these five things.

There are five things that a husband treats and respects his wife. The first is to treat each other with courtesy. Respect your wife. As a husband, you have to respect your wife, and you can't beat and scold.

The second is majesty. This kind of majesty is not with a straight face all day and no smile at all. Dignity is to look like a man. Well, it is frivolous and not solemn. Just don't be obscene. A man should be masculine.

Third, have no worries about food and clothing. The husband has the responsibility to support the family's expenses at any time. Earn money to support the family.

Fourth, solemn and timely. This solemnity does not mean solemnity, but decoration and dressing up. Responsible for the wife's decoration and jewelry. Anyone who doesn't buy jewelry and clothes for his wife after marriage should grieve and repent, and then go straight to ............... and shopping malls.

Usually you should send flowers and chocolates.

(See if the female compatriots here worship Buddha very much? )

Fifth, entrusted with family affairs. Let the wife decide the things at home. She will take care of it. We are only in charge of state affairs.

A wife respects her husband with five things. What is a cloud? Whichever comes first. Sit back. The three are in harmony. All four people are very obedient. These five people deliver the message first. A wonderful life. A husband should respect his wife.

There are five things about wives, treating husbands. This is a very wise family philosophy.

Get up first, then sit down. This is a courtesy, and it is very old. Now it's all ladies first. In fact, what we are talking about here is respect, in terms of etiquette. In fact, it doesn't matter how you live at home. Be sure to pay attention to this problem outside. It doesn't matter if a woman gets up first and then sits down, but the problem remains the same. You must respect your husband in front of outsiders. Men are better. I won't say much about this.

Harmony and words, especially for girls, should be avoided. If a woman is pleasant, it is more effective to say it than to raise her voice eight times. The success rate of sugar-coated shells is relatively high. Many marital problems start from here. So if you want a happy marriage, then if you can make the family harmonious, you will succeed more than half.

Jing Shun, I'm afraid many female compatriots will be unhappy when I say this. Why should I obey him, but he won't obey me? In fact, obedience does not mean that you obey everything. It means that you should respect your husband's thoughts and wishes. It's not that you can't put forward your own opinions on family issues, but you should respect each other's ideas and habits. Don't try to change him or shape him. If you are really obedient and respectful, gentlemen are generally easily assimilated.

What is this? It means that you can know what he is thinking and doing without waiting for him to speak. Help him do it well. This requirement is very high. It's not that hard. Many old couples who have been married for many years can do this and know what they want before they speak. What's more, it's not hard to figure out what men think. If you can do it. Don't worry about any third parties or extramarital affairs. Even if you kick him out, he won't leave.

If so, the other side is peaceful. No fear.

If all this is done, then the other party will feel at ease, and we won't worry about any marriage problems.

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