What you think, you will see.

I read an interesting story about Dongpo layman and his friend Fo Yin:

One day, Su Dongpo asked Fo Yin, "What do I look like from the master's insight?" Fo Yin replied: "In the eyes of the poor monk, the donor is the golden body of the Buddha."

Su Dongpo was very happy after hearing this. Seeing Fo Yin chubby, he wanted to make a joke and smiled: "In my opinion, the master is a pile of cow dung."

Instead of getting angry, Fo Yin said something that made Su Dongpo, a great genius, rather shy: "Buddha is born of the heart. If you have a Buddha in your heart, everything you see is a Buddha; If you have cow dung in your heart, everything you see will turn into cow dung. "

Mr. Dongpo thought it was cheap, but the result was boring. A heart is a Buddha and a heart is cow dung-there are high and low realms. This time, Dacai really suffered a big loss.

Things are often so wonderful. If you have happiness and happiness in your heart, everything you see is happiness and happiness. or vice versa, Dallas to the auditorium

Look at those who are successful in love: the world is still that world, but not the world in their eyes-just like in heaven. Happiness is beyond words, gratitude beyond words. I sincerely thank God, the earth and the sun for shining on the earth ... In fact, what TA sees is only her inner happiness.

Look at the brokenhearted and frustrated people: the world is still the same, but it has already changed color, with dark clouds, lightning and thunder, and gray. At this time, I am lonely, depressed and sad, and the beautiful scenery in front of me makes me lose interest in watching. In fact, everything in front of TA is just inner unhappiness.

Many things are divided into two, and there are two sides. If all we think is bad and negative, then we will get what we want and see more negative things. If what we think is good and positive, then we will "get what we want" and find more beautiful things.

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Does it sound a little "heart-centered" but amazing?

There is also a story about "suspicious neighbors stealing axes", which I believe many friends have seen:

Once upon a time, there was a man who lost an axe and suspected that it was stolen by his neighbor's son, so he secretly observed others: they walked like axe thieves; Look at the expression on people's faces, the more they look, the more they look like people stealing axes; Listening to him is more like an axe thief-no matter what people say, do, say and do, they are like an axe thief.

Later, the lost axe was found by himself, and then he looked at his neighbor's son. At this time, his words and deeds are not like those of an axe thief.

Whether others are good or bad in your eyes is just that you made a "sketch" of TA in your mind in advance.

03

Don't think that only ancient stories can have such "writers", and there are many in modern life.

With such a healthy aunt, she committed suicide.

An aunt, walking in the street one day, met a fortune teller on the road and made a fortune-telling when she was idle. As a result, I was told that I was going to die soon. ...

In fact, I still don't understand the fortune teller's mentality. He just took the money and said a few happy words. He wants to scare his aunt like this.

As a result, when I got home, my aunt began to worry and didn't even want to eat tea. Square dance is even more unintentional. She sighs at home all day. After a long time, she became ill.

It's nothing to be sick, but the stubborn aunt said not to see a doctor. She thought everything was providence, and what a coincidence the fortune teller said!

Later, due to the delay in treatment, she really used her life to verify how effective the fortune teller's words were. Really, if you don't die, you won't die Why do you have to make trouble for yourself?

Because what she thought at that time was "life is not long", such a fake thing was actually predicted by the fortune teller. After all, only she "achieved" it herself.

04

In the new year, tell a positive story to make everyone happy.

Friend H stayed in a city for too long, and his heart was tired. He yearned for the beautiful Kunming, thinking about how to move to that pleasant and livable spring city day and night.

Unexpectedly, it didn't take long for the company to have the opportunity to work in Kunming. This position and salary make him quite satisfied. Most importantly, this is the city he has always wanted to go to.

Even more coincidentally, the house he rented at that time just expired, and the big project he had done for a long time ended perfectly at that time-everything was so perfect and just right, as if "the whole world was making way for him".

The true story above smacks of coincidence. However, it cannot be completely accidental. If he doesn't have the idea of leaving first, he naturally won't see the opportunity for change, and he won't take the initiative to get the opportunity for transfer.

05

Some things, seemingly mysterious, are actually not so mysterious.

We often encounter such things in our lives:

There are many such things. In fact, from a psychological point of view, it is not mysterious at all. Our "attention" is selective: thousands of moments, thousands of things, thousands of faces-and we just choose the moments, things and aspects we want to see.

Other moments, people, events and other aspects naturally exist, but they have been filtered out by us. The only thing I choose to stay is what I have been thinking, thinking and can't let go.

So, what you will see, what kind of person you want to be and what kind of world you want to have, in the final analysis, still depends on your heart.