How to resolve the unsatisfactory marriage, does Feng Shui have anything to do with marriage?

If you need to rely on feng shui to resolve the marriage crisis, it means that you still want to maintain your feelings and work hard for the good. Although feng shui may not save the marriage, at least try it.

I once read an article by Feng Shui master Nan. He said feng shui makes sense. It was called "Feng Shui" in ancient times, and "Feng Shui" is actually the geography of China in the past. China's view on land in the past was "one virtue, two lives, three geomantic omen, four virtues and five studies". The master said, "If you know this, don't look at Feng Shui. Everything depends on your own efforts. "

Some people say that "if you believe it, you don't believe it", while others attribute it to "superstition". Actually, it's not. This thing is really evil sometimes. I know a host who will show people around the house and look after the house. Once he saw a cactus in a family's bedroom and suggested that the owner move to the balcony. When the host asked him why, he asked, Do you two often quarrel? Easy to carry?

The master also thinks that the master is a god and knows everything. Cactus may absorb formaldehyde to purify the air, but harmony between husband and wife is more important, and plants such as green radish can also have the same effect and are safe. It's really unsafe to put prickly cactus in the bedroom. After moving out of the dormitory, the couple later told others that their relationship was really closer than before, and there seemed to be fewer quarrels.

The so-called "feng shui" is actually "smooth sailing", that is, avoiding wind and water. May wish to ask the Feng Shui master to have a look and give some suggestions on home decoration and furnishings.

When you get married, don't discuss the so-called "numerology incompatibility" and other geomantic omen. What matters is how to solve it. For example:

1. There is no mirror in the bedroom. It is said that people are suspicious and don't understand each other.

2. The door cannot face the bathroom. Most of the houses now are designed by developers. If the door really faces the bathroom, it can only be adjusted by placing it at home. I really lived in my dormitory as soon as I opened the door. It looks awkward, especially when the bathroom is not closed, which directly feels dirty. If it's a wedding room, how can you be in a good mood?

3. If the bedroom area is too large, you can add screens and furniture. The Forbidden City has more than 9,000 rooms, and the emperor's bedroom is only a few tens of square meters. Too big a bedroom will make people feel insecure, leading to weak feelings between husband and wife. It makes sense to think about it.

The room should be well ventilated and bright. If the light is too dim or not ventilated, it will make people feel bad. It can be adjusted by soft clothes such as lighting.

5, to talk about hygiene, do a good job of classified storage. A clean and tidy home can make people feel stable. Many quarrels are caused by trivial things in life. A clean and tidy home and a capable couple are usually kind.

Marriage needs the management and joint efforts of both parties. Psychologists' "intimate relationship" theory tells us that marriage is a matter of one person, not two people. One person can't control and change another. When we can become better ourselves, we can change each other by changing ourselves, so as to obtain a more intimate and harmonious marriage relationship.

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