Meeting the right person in love can make you a better self.

Meeting the right person in love can make you a better self.

Only when you meet the right person in love can you make yourself better. Love is hard to put into words. When we meet good love, we will become better and better. Only when you meet the right person in love can you make yourself better.

Only when you meet the right person in love can you become a better self. 1 Many people like to say that life is precious and love is more expensive. If you are free, you can throw this poem away, but you don't know what a mess freedom will be in front of life in the peaceful era when love and life really abandon us.

The novel Me in front of You by Jojo Meuss, a new generation of British love novelist, tells the story between an elite celebrity Wiltrena and a small town girl Louisa Clark. They would not have met, but a bad luck linked them and opened another new life journey for them.

Jojo Meuss wrote 13 novels, each of which was very popular with readers. She is one of the few writers who can win the Romantic Fiction Award of the Year of the Romantic Novelists Association twice.

Her "Me in front of you" attracted readers' attention as soon as it was published, and has been at the forefront of major charts, creating an unprecedented best-selling miracle. Richard Judy, Britain's largest book club, has also given her enthusiastic promotion many times, and Amazon readers in Britain have even given overwhelming five-star praise.

What is the charm of the story in the book? Let's follow the author on this new life path and see what happened. Life is the same, just changing rapidly.

Louisa, a 26-year-old waitress in Butter Teahouse, likes the warm atmosphere of sultry and bacon smell in the teahouse, the cool breeze brought in when the door is opened and closed, people whispering and the music flowing gently in the corner when it is quiet.

Teahouse is not a fashionable place, but it made Louisa like everything here until one day six years later, the teahouse closed. Louisa has lost her job, and she must find a new job at once, because the whole family lives on her salary. One day later, Louisa applied for a job-hunting allowance, participated in a 45-minute interview and found a night job in a chicken processing factory.

Later, I worked as a family energy consultant for two days in the training class; Then I went to work in a fast food chain for two weeks and was fired for arguing with a four-year-old about the benefits of free toys. When Louisa stood in front of the career recommendation counselor for the fourth time, she decided to take his advice to do nursing and accompany disabled men.

This man's name is Wilt Reina, and he is a promising young lawyer in London. He was quadriplegic because of a car accident two years ago. That day, Will and his girlfriend Alicia spent a wonderful evening and decided the place for their first trip.

Although Alicia didn't particularly like it, Will didn't change her mind. Even to appease Alicia, Will promised to have dinner with her on Thursday night, and turned his cell phone on mute. After all, I called him too much.

However, it all ended the next morning, when it was raining heavily. When Will strode to the intersection of the street and prepared to take a taxi to work, a car accident fell from the sky and completely subverted his life. If a person can't move except from the neck down, what else can he do?

When Louisa walked down the hall with a basket of washed clothes, she heard Mrs. treanor and Sister Will arguing fiercely. It turned out that Will committed suicide. She just looked at him and wouldn't let him commit suicide again. Meanwhile, Will has decided to end his life in six months.

The news exploded like a thunderbolt on Louisa's head. She tried to do things better and tried her best to make Will feel comfortable and happy, but he didn't mean to live! Louisa felt cheated, so angry that she couldn't sleep at night, and at the same time she was very sad. Unfortunately, she can't tell anyone that she has decided to resign.

You only have one life, so you have to live it wonderfully. Mrs. Trina begged Louisa not to leave, because the change of the will was obvious, and they hoped that Louisa would make him feel that there was still a life he could enjoy in this world.

Louisa wanted to refuse, but looked at Mrs. Trina's trembling hands and longing in her eyes, as well as the contract she had to fulfill and the living expenses at home. Finally, she decided to stay, but only if she was allowed to take Will to do what he wanted.

The Trina family agreed. So, when Will's illness eased, Louisa tried to create happiness and make Will happy, and Will tried to enjoy it. He is no longer afraid of the strange eyes of others. He laughed more and more and was in a better mood. He constantly encouraged Louisa to try new things and embrace more possibilities of life.

With his encouragement, Louisa is no longer the woman who wants nothing in life, nor the strange woman who wears strange clothes and is confused and lazy. She is becoming more and more aware of what kind of life she wants. Love spread quietly between them, but Will didn't change his decision, because he couldn't give Louisa a normal life.

Finally, Will left and left a letter for Louisa. In the letter, Will asked her to go to the Marquis Cafe in Paris's Free Frank Street, because this is his favorite place, and I hope she will like it, too. He opened an account in the name of Louisa, and the money in it was enough for her to buy a good house, pay for the degree course and complete all the living expenses of her four-year full-time education.

He said that his parents knew about it, so please don't worry, don't send money, live a free and happy life, leave that claustrophobic town and do what she has always longed for.

At the end of the letter, Will wrote affectionately: In the new world, you will feel a little uncomfortable. It is true to leave your comfort zone, but your inner desire and fearlessness will make you excited. Live a brave life, push yourself, don't be complacent, do what you like proudly, and settle down with some ridiculous guy.

Life is a never-ending battle, and we should take our own battlefield with us.

Only when you meet the right person in love can you become a better self. That day, my old best friend asked me a question seriously. She said, if you don't marry him, if you don't marry this man, will you become a different person and pursue a different life? I thought for 30 seconds and answered her: no, she smiled and said, you see, I knew it.

Sometimes we often think that there are many answers. At that moment, you know the answer is already there, and there is only one answer. No matter who I meet, I am still writing, will continue to write, or will write here. No matter who I marry, I can't change it.

Last night, I made an appointment with Mr. Guqin. Pushing open the door, the sound of water gurgled and the candlelight in the room swayed. I smiled. It doesn't feel like a class, but it's still a date. She said, isn't it a date?

In the eyes of many people, she is the goddess. I can put on a fairy-like robe, or I can dress up as a punk girl in Tibet. For many people, this is a beautiful and free life. However, for her, it is probably far from the best self.

But no matter who she marries and becomes, she will still like guqin, she will continue to play the piano, and she will still find guqin.

If you have the same question, ask my publishing partner. I think her answer will probably be similar. She said that the fortune teller told her mother that this girl would be engaged in an industry you didn't expect. At that time, her legs were beautiful, and her family thought that she would become a model or a fashionable and glamorous industry. Unexpectedly, she came across publishing, and then, until now, she went from editing to setting up a publishing company independently.

What is a better self? For a long time, I also thought that a better life would be that one day, I could go to the supermarket without paying attention to the price tag, I could buy things I couldn't afford at that time, go where I wanted to go regardless of the ticket price, and have a house of my own. But when I had such a life, I didn't feel much happier than before.

I also see that many girls seem to have a good life and look good. Their hearts are not happy. A beautiful girl with heavy eyebrows and big eyes reluctantly took off her spell because of her bad teeth. Born with a big chest and a thin waist, he just felt that his face was big and tried every means to save money to go to Japan to grind his cheeks and cut his bones. Handsome and beautiful, I dislike that I am not sexy enough. Too sexy and complaining that men always marry others.

It is always easy for everyone to see the advantages of others and their own shortcomings. We always think that to be a better and more perfect self is to cut off our own shortcomings and then insert the advantages of others into ourselves. A better life is to satisfy your family and get what others can't get.

Then, we put all our time and energy into fighting against our own shortcomings. Then, we put all our expectations and values in comparison with others to satisfy our family and others. This is of course a kind of pain.

We don't just write, play the piano and write books. Only this thing will let us find in it: no matter how bad I am, it is me. That's what makes me different. I'm the one who makes this special. Whenever I devote myself to this matter, I am not afraid of the passage of time. When I do this, it is my favorite moment.

This makes me very happy. This is my sense of security, and this is my feeling. So, if you want to ask me, no matter who I marry, will I be the same person and pursue the same thing? Of course it is.

What makes us love ourselves more is not because we have become more beautiful, nor because we have finally lived a better life. On the contrary, there is something that can carry our hearts. This is not a person, a diamond, or anything that can carry it.

To be a better self, it is better to make yourself like yourself more. To live a better life, it is better to stick to those things that really make you happy.

Only in this way can life really get better. Not because of what you have, nor because of what you have, but because of who you know.

It's not just a dress that makes me like myself more, nor a trip that makes me like myself more, nor finding a soul mate that makes me love myself more. Just about me and myself, I found the best bridge. So, whenever someone asks me, what do you think is the biggest change in your ten years? My answer is:

I really like myself more than before.