Don ...

1982 to 10 to 12 Sang Siu, a new producer of wireless, chose Meiling as the actor to play the little princess Shuanggege in the first costume martial arts drama "Thirteen Sisters" supervised by wireless.

It was this play that introduced me to that man, the man who had been waiting there, Don. Imagine that when Meiling and Tang met for the first time, they might just catch a glimpse, but they didn't know at this moment that this woman would die for this man, and this man would suffer for this woman all his life. Whether it's fate or evil, it's all at this glance, all at that moment ...

1in the middle of 984, Meiling's love life gradually began to enter a trough, and the relationship between Meiling and Tang began to appear unbalanced. Meiling's career is in full swing, and her fame and achievements are covered up by a lot of national soup. As a man, don must have had a hard time at first This is not to say that we are still too traditional, and women are better than men. What's the matter? But from the perspective of family psychology, it is indeed a factor of unstable marriage and love. For a large part of people, if the seven lonely days are in the same industry in marriage and love, women are far ahead of men, but they have no time and experience to appease men with feelings and let them get a relative balance, their marriage and love will inevitably have problems. This may be the case with Meiling and Tang. It is conceivable that when Tang met Meiling, Meiling was just a new actress who became a monk halfway. She is small and exquisite, and people can't put it down. Tang has been taking care of her like a big brother, but in less than a year, Meiling is in full swing, while Tang is still standing still. In Meiling's shadow, she became a foil in Meiling's lace news, which is more than 20 for an enterprising person. But in fact, this is not a completely irreconcilable contradiction, just adding two unfavorable factors to this contradiction. First, they are in the performing arts industry, and all the emotional contradictions and imbalances in this industry will be amplified. Second, they are all too young, in their twenties, and they really have little experience in dealing with feelings. Moreover, the busy entertainment circle didn't leave them much time.

On May 15, Barbara Yung and Michael Miu, a screen couple, joined hands on the Singaporean stage. The instability between Meiling and Tang began to be noticed when I saw her off at the airport before. When seeing him off at the airport, Michael Miu fell in love with his future wife Qi Meizhen. They were very close when they saw each other off. In contrast, Tang and Meiling seem a little indifferent. When the reporter asked Tang to take a photo with Meiling, Tang was impatient and made Meiling cry on the spot at the airport. The relationship between the two people has begun to show signs of crisis, but there is still room for recovery. On June 0 and 2, 65438, she performed with Michael Miu in Kuala Lumpur. When Meiling was in Kuala Lumpur, she visited an Indian fortune teller. After meeting the fortune teller, she told Meiling that she would embark on another change in her life after she was 27 years old. Meiling was just 27 years and 7 days old when she died. After Meiling returned to Hongkong, she used the money she earned and all her savings to spend 500,000 yuan to buy an 80-square-meter old Weijinyuan house in Zhang Chong, michel platini. After Meiling moved into her new house, she also made a key for Tang. Since then, Tang has often come to Meiling's house, and there are more and more clothes in Meiling's house. The media began to spread the news that the two were living together. This is the Meiling family. It seems that their feelings have further developed, but there is a big difference between cohabitation and marriage. Meiling is a woman who has always been eager to get married. After buying a new house, Meiling proposed to Tang, but Tang never agreed. Tang thinks that his career has not achieved anything yet and needs to wait for a while.

As for Don, he doesn't want to get married. Many Meiling fans must think that Tang really doesn't know when to be blessed. Such a beautiful and lovely wife was placed in front of him, but he didn't want it. Why? In fact, we can only say that "children are not fish, and we know the happiness of fish". That's what people do. A lot of things may be clear when you look at them. We are not bystanders, we are bystanders, and their feelings can only be analyzed by historical events.

There must be two reasons for a man who doesn't want to get married. First, he is not sure that this woman is really the woman he wants all his life. Secondly, he thinks that a man's career is the foundation of family marriage, and marriage will hinder the progress of his career.

1984 in the second half of the year, the relationship between Meiling and Tang became worse and worse. At that time, the news of their empathy and separation was often reported in the media. Because they spent little time together, the means of communication at that time were not advanced. I think maybe these scandals let the other party know these bad things faster. Sometimes I think, what's there to say when two people live together? Maybe people are really different. At that time, Meiling and Tang seemed to be people who avoided the problem. When faced with problems, they instinctively quarrel, ignore each other, or stimulate each other with gossip, but they are afraid and unwilling to face the current emotional problems, and frankly solve and care about each other's suffering chambers of commerce. People can't be too busy, too busy to communicate. There are several happy lovers in the entertainment circle. If they are happy, their career will fall behind, and if they succeed, their love will disappear. What do people really need?

At the beginning of 1985, Tang and Meiling moved out of the upstairs and downstairs houses together, so they didn't have a fixed intersection in space. Tang has begun to break up with Meiling gradually. He can't stand Meiling's paranoid personality, but Meiling is dreaming and waiting for Tang to change his mind. He also hopes that after Tang leaves her, he will miss her very much and eventually return to her. People are always willing to compare their own hearts with those of others. If they think so, they will subconsciously think that others think so. Don't you know that it is really a person's character and a person's feeling, so communication and understanding between people are the most important. If you can learn to think from the perspective of others, many emotional misunderstandings can be avoided. Tang and Meiling are two people who are good at communication, and time and space do not give them opportunities. Busy and impetuous acting career, let two lovers who can't communicate and understand slowly become strangers. In fact, everything conforms to the objective law of emotional development. Without intersection, understanding and communication, any form of feelings can't last long.

At this point, Meiling chose suicide for the first time. Before the Lunar New Year this year, Meiling swallowed four sleeping pills and attempted suicide. After taking the medicine, she felt very regretful and called the doctor she knew to treat herself. Not long after that, Meiling turned on the gas at home again and wanted to commit suicide, but a good friend came to visit and washed away this ridiculous thing. Later, Meiling explained that she wanted to feel dizzy. In fact, since then, Meiling may have fallen into a tendency of self-abuse. It can be seen that she doesn't want to die herself, but she just wants to punish herself through some things.

Meiling visited the fortune teller and drew a sign for her emotional relationship with Tang, which said, "Boundless love has no boat, and fate is eighteen", which means that their truly happy days are only eighteen months. Now think about it, Meiling's life is really a sea of suffering without a ferry. But this suffering is definitely going to turn back, but she didn't give herself a chance to turn back and didn't give us a chance to see her happiness.

/kloc-in may of 0/4, Meiling died of gas poisoning at home at the age of 26. ...