Ordinary World understands Sun Shaoan's "foolish filial piety" and knows how vicious his calculation of Xiulian is.

I don't like the role of Sun Shaoan at all, because there is a kind of "protagonist aura" that makes people feel good about him. He is hardworking, diligent, human and moral, so it seems that he is full of advantages, but I feel depressed and can't like him.

Especially his performance in marriage is really disappointing. Apart from being a little manly, Sun Shaoan's way of dealing with family relations, husband-wife relations and brotherly relations is simple and rude. He thinks more about other people's feelings, doesn't think at all, and only does things according to his own ideas.

Sun Shaoan is worthy of sympathy, because at that time, such people were heroes in people's hearts.

Runye stuffed Shao An with a note, which aroused his deep feelings for Runye. He loves Runye, but he dare not, because his family is too poor.

Sun Shaoan and Runye grew up together. Shao Anjiali is so poor that he can't get enough to eat. Runye often steals cornmeal buns from home for Shao 'an to eat. Girls' minds are more delicate and precocious than boys'. Runye's affection for Shao 'an is not a simple playmate friendship. She regards Shao An as her "lover" and wants to marry him when she grows up.

Sun Shaoan didn't think of it. He only knows that Runye is very nice, kind and beautiful, and his family conditions are good. There are so many differences between the two families that Sun Shaoan didn't even consider them from other aspects. When he saw the confession letter of Runye, his reaction was to reveal the true feelings of Runye:

"Suddenly, a piece of white paper flashed before his eyes like dazzling lightning, which made him dizzy! When he realized what happened, he stood on the road and cried happily. "

Sun Shaoan realized that he loved Tian Runye. When he got a "response" from Runye's love, he would be so happy because he knew that he loved Runye and Runye loved him.

"If he can really live with her all his life, how satisfied he will be with his life!" If you love someone, you want to be with her forever. If Sun Shaoan went to high school like Runye, and the gap between them was not so big, he would bravely pursue Runye. Now even if Runye agrees to marry him, he doesn't want Runye to come back to suffer with him.

To put it bluntly, Sun Shaoan dare not love embellish leaves. The most fundamental reason is that Runye is afraid of being poor with him. He really should say that if he really loves someone, he just wants her to have a good life.

"He wants to find a rural girl who can bear hardships and start a business with him."

Sun Shaoan himself is a farmer, and he wants to find a farmer to live with and manage this "rotten bag" well. What families in Sun Shaoan need most now is labor. My parents are old, my younger brother and sister are at school, and my grandmother is sick all the year round, with bad eyes and bad ears. His brother-in-law, Wang Manyin, is a "wandering ghost". He often goes to his sister's house to help.

Xiulian is a good cook at work. Judging from her appearance, she can work. If she marries her, you don't have to worry about things at home, and work in other places can also help. The most important thing is that Xiulian doesn't want a bride price. Sun Shaoan is 23 years old and hasn't married yet. Because his family has no money and doesn't even have a place to live. No woman can take a fancy to such a family, and it is difficult to get married.

Xiulian and Runye have completely different positions in Sun Shaoan's mind. Sun Shaoan regards Runye as "love" and Xiulian as "fate". Love is sacred, and life serves itself.

In the original "Ordinary World", there is a saying about love:

What Sun Shaoan wants is how to make Tian Runye better. She teaches in the county, so she can find someone with better conditions and live a city life. Xiulian is a farmer. She is used to working as a coolie and should continue to contribute. In the TV series, when Sun Shaoan got married, Runye came, and she wanted to fight for it, hoping to be with Sun Shaoan. Sun told her that Shao An didn't want her to suffer from the Sun family.

Many people say that when Sun Shaoan chose Xiulian to get married, she had a serious functional female tendency. There's nothing wrong with that. Shao An married Xiulian for a purpose and wanted her to support this family with herself.

Who would get married without a purpose? I think most people get married for the benefits that the other person can bring to themselves. It is the right idea to marry a woman who can take care of her family. Although not as noble as those who marry a useless woman for love, I think this idea is also one of the correct criteria for choosing a spouse. There is no shame in purposeful marriage.

Everyone thinks that moistening leaves is Shao 'an's first love because it is unfair to Xiulian, and her favorite is moistening leaves. But after Shao An made a decision, he just wanted to have a good life with Xiulian, and he had no other thoughts. When Runye got married, he didn't go to the wedding and asked Shao Ping to bring a blanket to Runye as a gift.

Regarding whether Shao An loves Xiulian or not, I think there is love, which is a kind of love between relatives. This kind of "love" can actually support two people for life. Not all couples are together because of true love.

Whether Sun Shaoan marries Xiulian or Runye, he is selfish in marriage, which is caused by his growing experience.

Sun and Sun Yuting are two brothers. However, Sun Yuting is not practical in his work. He runs around all day, and his family is too poor to eat. When he got married, Sun helped to buy a house, and he often needed Sun's help.

Shao An's grandmother has been living in his house, and his parents are very filial to the elderly, so their brothers and sisters are also very filial children. Sun Shaoan went to see the cows in the team. When he came home, he didn't forget to buy some cakes for his grandmother:

Xiulian can't empathize with his grandmother's feelings. All she knows is that Sun Shaoan is doing the heaviest work and deserves a good meal. Every time she makes up a meal, she gives Shao An the thick one, and once she gives Shao An the steamed white flour steamed bread by her mother-in-law. Shao An was very angry with Xiulian's "selfish" approach and once began to play Xiulian.

"As Xiulian entered the room, contradictions have begun to emerge. He has lived and died with his parents, brothers and sisters for many years. Xiulian loves him and can't forgive even if she hurts her family. He is a mature cultivator and will never "marry his daughter-in-law and forget his mother" as some young people in rural areas say. Don't! Sacrificing himself to fully support this poor family is his consistent belief for many years and has become his philosophy of life. "

Seeing this passage, I think every married woman can feel Xiulian's despair, not because Xiulian is unfilial, but because she is not so secure. Now that I'm married, life will definitely not be the same as before. I have a family and become a small family, but Shao An is still based on the previous family business. If a family wants to be stable for a long time, the young couple is the center of the whole family.

In the TV series, Shao An felt that his father was old and suffered a lot. He said, "I don't want to make him sad." Xiulian asked Shao An, so willing to make her sad?

Yes, in Shao An's mind, the wife should obey this big family and not hurt her parents' hearts because of the interests of the small family.

"When Shao An was in deep pain, Xiulian suddenly became light-obviously, her mother had told her the meaning of separation. Shao An can't stand his wife's happy mood. He is angry that Xiulian's attitude seems to be to get rid of a cumbersome carefree, which is disrespectful to the elderly! " Xiulian wants to break up, but Sun Shaoan thinks she is fickle. Sun Shaoan doesn't consider Xiulian at all, only himself. It is foolish and wishful thinking to look at people like Sun Shaoan in this way. In fact, parents want him to live well and will not feel uncomfortable because his son is living well.

On the issue of separation, Xiulian always wanted her own kiln. Shao An thinks that she just dislikes old people and wants to live a good life. Shao An and Xiulian quarreled because of their separation. After marriage, I want to live separately from the older generation. My daughter-in-law has had this idea since ancient times, and there is nothing wrong with it. Shao An thinks Xiulian is "unfilial".

"Xiulian know less Ann will resolutely disagree with the separation, so also dare not mention a word in this respect. Really, she knows very well that Shao Anning is willing to divorce her and will not leave such a large group of people at home. "

Sun Shaoan has done very badly in this respect. He has his own life experience complex and asks Xiulian to be like him. Isn't this a little moral kidnapping? Such a man is selfish in marriage. Xiulian is too tired to marry him.

Fortunately, Sun and his wife are very reasonable. Shao An's father said, "You and Xiulian have suffered a lot in order to save the family over the years. Since everything is fine at home, you should stop worrying about us. Your mother and I are willing to let you live a happy life as a young man for two days, otherwise, I will be very sorry! " Shao Ancai left home with uneasy heart.

Sun Shaoan is selfish in her marriage and a little too hard on herself. As an old man, they also want their children to live well. Besides, Xiulian is right. If they are separated, they will live a good life and will not ignore the elderly. It is good for everyone to work hard for a few years and earn some family business. If the whole family is mixed together, in fact, the "effectiveness" of the whole family is low, the division of labor is clear, and everyone can have their own freedom, which is a relief.

Sun Shaoan doesn't want to break up, although for Xiulian, he is selfish. He is a very filial person, and living with such people will make him feel very tired. He is filial to his parents. After all, he is not wrong. However, in doing so, he is really sacrificing the happiness of the other half. He asked Xiulian to carry that smelly bag home all the time, just like him.

Sun Shaoan, he is another person worthy of sympathy.

"In fact, only the eldest brother in the family has a full-time job-but he is only 23 years old! Dear eldest brother has shouldered the burden of family life since he was thirteen years old; Without him, their home would be ruined! "

Sun Shaoan is the backbone of this family. He has shouldered the burden of family since he was thirteen years old. Therefore, I understand that he is unwilling to break up. He is worried that his parents' life will not go on after he survives. He would rather be tired than leave that poor family, and his conscience would be very uneasy.

Sun Shaoan will fill two large water tanks at home first in the morning, then help her mother cook, send her sister and Jinxiu to school, arrange to lead the whole team to produce, and go to the private plot to sweat after lunch.

"Sun Shaoan worked frantically and greedily all day. In the evening, if the brigade doesn't have a meeting, he will fall in his little hole and fall asleep like a dead man ... "Although Sun Shaoan is overworked, he often doesn't have enough to eat, and his family is getting poorer every year.

He can't marry someone who loves him, and he has to bear the heavy work of the whole family. Sun Shaoan is actually a compassionate person.

"I haven't eaten a few good meals, I haven't worn a decent dress, I haven't had a happy day, and I can't accept women's love as sweetly as others."

In the original work, Lu Yao wrote that Shao An cried several times, on the one hand, because Shao An needed to vent his grievances and pains through crying, on the other hand, I think it was the author's sympathy for Shao An! He has a bad temper, is strict with the players, and is not gentle enough for Xiulian. However, what he does is not all for himself, so Shao An is a person worthy of sympathy.

Compassion returns to sympathy. If you can choose, I think many people will only show sympathy for him. If you want to live with him, I'm afraid few people want to. Therefore, after Xiulian, there is no Xiulian.

It's not his fault that Sun Shaoan didn't marry Runye. Not all people can follow one's inclinations like Shao Ping.

Sun Shaoan, he gave in to reality. He won't really marry Runye, will he? That field won't agree. Some objective conditions can't be surpassed. We are all ordinary people.

Sun Shaoan is already extraordinary. He had a good classmate, Liu Genmin, who helped him a lot and introduced him to pull bricks, earning more than 2000 yuan. Later, he opened a brick factory and then expanded it. Although there were twists and turns in the middle, he finally became a veritable brick factory director and a local celebrity.

Originally the poorest person in Shuangshui Village, now he has become a leader, built a primary school and won a good reputation. Sun Shaoan really achieved a class leap. This kind of life is extraordinary. He didn't marry Runye. Such a trifle is really nothing in front of his career and reputation.

How can a person be perfect in this life? Sun Shaoan has realized his dream of getting rich, and his life will not be perfect. Unfortunately, love and marriage may be Sun Shaoan's "price"!

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