The question of 60th birthday.

In my hometown, there is also a saying that "men are too single and women are too double". Some people say that "men are too weak and women are too practical" and "nine is not enough for ten", that is, men will celebrate their 60th birthdays when they are 59, and women will only celebrate their 60th birthdays when they are 60. According to folk custom, 9 is a hurdle, and when it meets 9, it becomes 0, which is the truth. Then why is there a saying that "9 is a hurdle"? Because 9 is the highest number in the number, you can't live if you live to the highest number, so avoid 9 and go straight to 0, which means starting over. In the past, women's status was underground, and no one cared about these statements. In the past, there was no such thing as jumping every nine hurdles.

As for your father's 60th birthday, since you have missed the custom, you should grasp two points: First, is there a saying in your local area that 60th birthday is hard? Ask older people as long as there are no bad rumors. Because it is necessary for relatives and friends to celebrate their birthdays, it is a matter of scene, and it is also important to follow the customs. Second, it is important to respect dad's wishes and ask his advice. As long as the old man is happy. Old people in the new era may not care about anything.

If you have any scruples, it is also a good way. It is best for family members to tell a little lie with one voice, such as what the fortune teller said, hehe, so that outsiders can understand, will not gossip, and feel better about themselves. In fact, it is the psychological shadow that is difficult. As long as the birthday girl is happy.