Why can I tell my fortune at the age of three?

Tell you why three years old determines a child's life.

There is a folk proverb in China: "Look big at three years old and grow old at seven years old." This means that the temperament of a child at the age of three can predict his psychological and behavioral performance in his old age; By the age of seven, we can predict his life, that is, "three years old will be old, seven years old will be old", and a person's personality has been roughly formed before the age of seven.

Children are at a critical stage of growth and development before the age of 7, and the character formed at this stage will have a great influence on their future study, career, marriage and family. Therefore, before the child is 7 years old, parents should pay attention to all kinds of problems that may occur in the development of the child's personality and take active measures to cultivate the child's good personality and lay a solid foundation for the child's future success.

Every parent wants his child to have a good personality and become a happy, confident and popular person, but excellent personality traits will not automatically appear on the child, which requires careful cultivation and long-term efforts of parents. In the long-term growth process, children may also show some signs of bad personality. Parents should find these signs in time and actively guide them.

Children around 3 years old, the main task is to experience what kind of person they want to be in the future through game activities, and cultivate a sense of purpose and direction, autonomy and creativity. For example, if you tell a story to your child and teach him to learn a number or a Chinese character, he will hear you say that learning these things will be useful in the future. Children with a sense of purpose will listen to you very curiously and carefully, and learn to master them seriously, while children without a sense of purpose will be more indifferent.

As parents, we should discover and grasp this sense of purpose and direction in children in time, and give them timely reinforcement and encouragement. In the face of all kinds of challenging behaviors brought by children under three years old, parents can learn to resolve every challenge into cultivating the life skills and social skills that children need to step into society in the future.