Introduce Liang's good book "Father" and his speech. I don't know.

Recently, my mother lent me a book called Father. The author's name is Liang. Among them, 87 pages of the article "Mother" moved me very much.

There is a love story in the article: We know that mother, like many women, is not timid, but she is extremely afraid of caterpillars such as "Larix gmelinii" on the tree. At that time, elm money was our good fruit. We only think that our mother is afraid of "foreigners" and dare not give us elm money.

One day, my mother was helped back by the workers-when she was shoveling elm money in the tree, she suddenly saw herself covered with "foreign pull" and fell down in shock. ...

Seeing this, I know this mother is a good mother. She secretly climbed the tall elm tree next to the company in order to let the children eat elm money and relieve their greed, regardless of the danger.

From this I thought of my mother, who is a beautiful and capable woman. A few years ago, my father often went on business trips and left us at home. My mother works during the day and sometimes takes me to work at night. She was too busy to come, so she gave me 20 yuan to eat at the "Riyueren" restaurant downstairs. As for me, I spent19.80 yuan and left 20 yuan for my mother. Mother said, "son, you can really eat." Eat as much as you wish. You must be full. Mom goes to work to make you eat better and grow up happily. "

In fact, my mother's income is only twenty or thirty dollars a day. When she saw that I wanted to eat, she didn't feel bad about money at all. On the contrary, my mother is very stingy with herself. I seldom see her eating chicken legs. Every time she eats chicken, she always says that she likes to eat chicken neck. In fact, I also believe it. It was not until my grandmother came to our house once that I realized that my mother was reluctant to eat and deliberately said that.

"Only a mother is good in the world, and a child with a mother is like a baby." Now I deeply understand the meaning of this lyric. Mom, I want to say to you: "Mom, my life is very happy, thank you!" "

Comment on Liang's "Father" Model

In Liang's mind, his father is the head of the family, has absolute authority, and lives by selling his physical strength. He is a benefactor and a person who scares me. Because of his absolute leadership position in the family, his words and deeds affect everyone's life trajectory. His rough beating and cursing made me stutter to middle school, and also made me understand what a man's dignity is. A tolerant and patient mother will always be like a gentle sheep in front of him. A strong sense of self made him rather believe the fortune teller's theory of "killing women" than listen to the doctor's sincere advice, which eventually delayed his sister's treatment opportunity and led to her early death. It is precisely because of his harshness, rudeness and ignorance that he is bent on thinking that his future brother went crazy before graduating from college ... These broken memories, even with a painful feeling, are deeply imprinted in my mind and cannot be erased. But this doesn't mean that I don't respect my father. I don't love my father. He also has something to respect. For example, he is a strong man in Shandong. He doesn't sigh, complain or beg. His life principle is "Everything is Dont Ask For Help". His backbone is as strong as a mountain, and a person silently endures the livelihood of a family of six.

It is such a contradictory father who combines majesty, rudeness, ignorance, stubbornness and responsibility, which makes Liang love and hate, sympathize and pity, and makes their father-son relationship much more complicated than ordinary people.

The book once said: "In the father-son relationship, its essence is undoubtedly the diluent that dissolves the affection of bone and blood." It peacefully distorts the most natural ethics of human nature into the most absurd debt. Poverty is cursed, not only because it causes material debts, but also because it causes spiritual and emotional debts. "Maybe this article of Liang is to redeem his father's share of the debt!

It is natural for a husband to take care of his wife and children and take up the obligation to support his family, but Liang comes down to whether my mother and my brothers are "eating" my father or eating willfully. As the object of being eaten, my father didn't complain at all, which made me, as a child, consciously think about my father's situation and understand his misfortune. The stuttering incident undoubtedly left a deep shadow on the author's mind, but how strong can a child be afraid of his father! Therefore, the last sentence just now simply encourages children to eat, which makes the author see that the father also has a kind side. You know, in that poor era, a full meal was already a luxury, and encouraging eating was undoubtedly the progress of food. But that's how he endured it silently. Even if I was misunderstood by my children and saved money, I didn't want to take it out to build a house for my son to get married. When he was angry, he just sighed helplessly, that's all. Poverty has put too much pressure on my father, and because of poverty, my father, as an ignorant old farmer, has always been resented and despised by the son of an intellectual. When he found out that his son had treated his father like this, who could understand and share his painful heart? Who will cure his rickets?

But who can say it's father's fault? Although "man can conquer nature", if the tragic characteristics of an era and a society endow people with tragic fate in this historical period, even if it is man-made, it cannot be fundamentally changed.

Hard life, but also vicissitudes of life, with the years of Guanghua quietly flowing away, my father's sideburns are gradually showing signs of old. "Father, is no longer the once strong father, also is no longer the father who is still healthy and energetic in retirement. Father is old, and life has completely turned him into an old man. His dark bristles are falling off, and what hasn't fallen off is white. The beard is quite classy, silver gray and yellow. The so-called' old loyalty and yellow' is elegant, leaving the second buckle. It's just that this beard adds a little dignity to him. And his vicissitudes of life wrinkles, condensed with the ghosting of some old wish ... "Every time I read this, I can't help but feel sad. Life is not easy, so is father.

People who have plenty of food and clothing can never understand the stubbornness and tenacity of the poor, let alone their ignorance and ignorance. However, as the author said, all sadness is given by society and environment. The only thing we can persist in is to strip away the fundamental love, gentleness and compassion of prejudice.