How to adjust mentality

With clear and positive goals, bad mentality will gradually offset. The fundamental reason why people are different from other animals is that they have goals. People are no different from animals when they lose their goals in life. However, in reality, many people have no clear goals in life.

There is an interesting phenomenon that only professionals know, that is: when are taxis most prone to accidents? The answer is: when there are no passengers. There is a simple reason. When there are no passengers, his direction is blind. He hesitated when he turned left and right at the crossroads.

Of course it's accident-prone. This is the danger of losing your goal. This is why some people are eager to retire and enjoy leisure, only to find that they collapse faster after retirement.

Step 2 try to challenge yourself

The more you are afraid of something, the more you try to do it, you will definitely change yourself. For example, if you are afraid of heights, you plan to climb higher; You are ashamed to speak. You forced yourself to speak at the meeting and sit in a conspicuous place. You are timid, you force yourself to bungee jump; You are not good at words, so you have to argue with others.

3. Use suggestive incentives

Psychologists say that effective positive psychological suggestion can improve the understanding of self-worth and build full self-confidence. Self-verbal hints, such as swearing-in meeting, oath, motto and so on. Some fortune tellers use the power of suggestion to make themselves look really accurate.

4. Be tolerant and patient with others.

A hundred rivers are full of tolerance. Tolerance is a kind of wisdom and virtue, and it is also a magic weapon for many successful people. Lincoln said: Turning an enemy into a friend not only destroys an enemy, but also gains a friend.

Tolerance is also a magic weapon for longevity. Patience is not only the way to treat others, but also the way to do things. Patience is a kind of vision and measurement, a kind of cultivation and strategy, and even more a kind of wisdom. Patience in small things is for success in big things. People who can't stand small things can't achieve great things. Philosophers say: the big idea, the big career.

5. Keep doing things

1948 Oxford University invited Prime Minister Churchill to give a speech. He said: there are three secrets to my success: the first is never to give up; The second is never, never give up; The third is never, never, never give up. My speech is over.

A successful person has many fellow travelers: walk 100 miles, the first ten miles are bustling, shoulder to shoulder; Fifty miles away, it is sparse and clear, and its voice is sparse; In the past 90 years, I have become a lonely person. So philosophers say: there are no losers in the world, only cowards and war dead.