A broad heart can create a broad road.

As the saying goes, "there is dust in your eyes, but there is no bed width in your heart." If the heart is narrow, small things also appear big. No matter how small it is, it is impossible to put it in a heart as big as a needle tip. Broad-minded, big things seem small. No matter how big things are, it is not surprising to throw them into a heart as wide as the sea. Narrow-minded people think too much about themselves and too little about others. After a long time, the reputation is bad, the image is declining, there are fewer friends, and the circle is small. Invisibly, the road of life is getting narrower and narrower. A broad-minded person thinks more of others and less of himself. After a long time, I gained fame, improved my image, made more friends and broadened my circle. The road of life is naturally wider and wider.

Zhou Yu of the Three Kingdoms died of depression and anger because his strategy was not as good as Zhuge Liang's. Before he died, he couldn't let go of this winning or losing heart. He looked up and asked heaven, "If you were born in Liang, why were you born in Liang?" ! "Too narrow-minded, can't tolerate people, can't tolerate things, abruptly pushed himself into a corner.

Putting aside all kinds of distractions, I feel that I am retreating. Therefore, the best state of life is: affordable and affordable.

Let go of prejudice and life will be bright.

The so-called letting go of prejudice means not only letting go of prejudice against others, but also letting go of prejudice against yourself.

Sometimes I hear readers say that they have experienced the failure of life and feel that they are useless and don't know what the meaning of living is. In fact, there is no eternal peak in life, and there is no eternal trough. We all set out again and again, and returned again and again, with gratifying and regrettable gains. Writer San Mao said: "The source of happiness comes from everyone's heart. If you are unhappy inside, others can't help you out. " Nine times out of ten things will go wrong in life. If you regard yourself as a "useless person" just because of one failure, it is really unfair to yourself. Su Dongpo became famous as a teenager and his reputation spread all over the world. He stepped into the court and showed his ambition with confidence. Unexpectedly, one by one, he was sent from the power center to the hinterland. It stands to reason that this is a blow that no one can bear. Su Dongpo, on the other hand, can jump out and do his best to shine the light of life. He found that due to years of famine, the phenomenon of abandoning children in various places was very serious, so he organized groups to help children and took the lead in donating money. When there were frequent floods in the West Lake, he built water conservancy projects to fight floods and prevent floods. When he arrived in Hainan, he learned that local people were prone to get sick when drinking salty seawater, so he took people to dig drinking water wells, which the villagers gratefully called "Dongpo Well". There are many poets in China, but there is only one Su Dongpo. His achievements are reflected in all kinds of imperfections in life. Don't blindly follow the footsteps of others, have your own way; Don't always envy the brilliance of others, even wild chrysanthemums can't be beautiful, but they still exude fragrance. No one is perfect and no one is useless. Let go of prejudice, everyone has their own unique light.

Let go of desire and live calmly.

Lin Zexu has a saying that is considered to be the most reasonable. "When the wall falls down, everyone stands, and when there is no desire, it is just."

Letting go of desire does not mean not making progress, but treating it wisely and using it properly. Mature people have the wisdom to let go. They have their own plans and know what they want, but they won't do anything by hook or by crook, and they won't have excessive desires, so they live very calmly. I wanted everything when I was a child. Now I understand that the tighter my hand is, the less things I have. When you open your hands, the world is in your palm. Only by letting go of your heart can you have extra room for happiness.

Walk on the road of life and enjoy leisurely time. Chow Yun Fat, a big star, is called "Fat Brother" not only because he is a senior in film and television, but also because of his generous personality.

He has made a fortune and can spend the rest of his life with it, but he donated all his 5.6 billion property to charity. This shocked countless people. In an era when everyone is eager to get rich overnight, he squandered all his wealth just for peace of mind. Someone asked him why, and he said, "This money can't be kept forever. After you die, you can't take it away. Just donate it to those who need it outside. "

A person who grows up in poverty will not get lost in the desire for money. After the storm, he returned to his original dullness. Sometimes, the more you want, the more you care about what you lose.

I always feel unhappy because my desires are not satisfied. In a person's life, what he has is actually limited, and God will not concentrate all his luck on one person. Choose what you need and give up what you need. With "giving up" and "getting", you can live completely. There is a Buddhist poem, "If there is nothing, there is no dust." People who know how to let go are naturally ingenious and broad-minded. This is a life attitude as light as chrysanthemum, and a life realm of light wind and light clouds. Smile at the flowers, of course.

Let go of your distractions and you can move on.

Letting go doesn't mean abandoning the past and becoming nothing, but letting go of distractions, unnecessary stubbornness and redundant burdens.

Think of a story: a little novice monk and his master were crossing the river when they met a woman who asked for help because her legs and feet were inconvenient. Master carried her across the river, but little novice monk kept mumbling, how can master carry a woman? The more he thought about it, the more he felt something was wrong. He said to the master, "Master, how can you touch women? Isn't this a violation of the commandment? " Master smiled and said, "I have put it down, but you haven't put it down yet." "sentient beings are not like this, and they often hesitate because of too many concerns. There is no shortage of beauty in this world, but the eyes that find beauty. Why give up the thousands of scenery along the way because of a little unpleasantness on the journey? When the cup is full of milk, we often only pay attention to the milk; When a cup is full of water, we seem to see only one glass of water; The cup was empty, and we realized that it was a cup. People are the same. When our hearts are always full of troubles and worries, we will feel that life is very painful and dare not move forward.

Because when a person is upset, his vision is often limited to the blocked alley; If you are calm, you can take your time even if you encounter difficulties. Life will experience many things, and there is no need to put everything behind you. Only by knowing how to let go of distractions can we move forward calmly.

Flowers bloom and fall in front of the court, you are not surprised; There are dark clouds rolling outside the window, and I have no intention of staying long. The calmer you are, the more perfect your life will be.

A wide road is better than a wide heart, and a good life is better than a good heart.

When I was a child, I always felt that the world was too narrow. It takes a long time to understand that life is like a mirror. If you live in the sunshine, the world will smile at you; If you treat life with a gloomy attitude, you will see gloom. The past will eventually become a passing cloud, and after that, it will turn over. If you are always entangled, there will be no sunny day in life.