The whole story of the murder in Henan: 1.2 million bride price was not returned, and his wife and family were killed by anger. What happened afterwards?

High bride price has always been a hot topic. Many young people in modern times have many problems because of the problem of bride price, such as breakup, divorce and unreasonable bride price.

This case in Henan was caused by the bride price. The suspect is the victim's husband. He killed his wife's family, even the children. The result can be imagined: being brought to justice.

First of all, the character and family of the suspect Zhang are analyzed. 1. Zhang grew up shy, honest, plain and even a little ugly, but hardworking and obedient to his wife. Because of the poor economic conditions at home, I worked as a coolie with my father in my teens.

Zhang is very old. At the age of 30, he didn't see the shadow of his daughter-in-law, so he was very eager to have a wife, even if he was not beautiful.

Why can't you marry a daughter-in-law? First, the family is poor. Second, the local bride price is unreasonable. They are just a small county, and the bride price needs hundreds of thousands. Some people even have more than one. These two points are the core factors of his unmarried.

Second, the victim Wang Fangfang's personality and status analysis. Wang Fangfang has been to a big city before. He met a white-collar worker and they got married. But for some reason, they had no children, so they adopted a daughter.

But the man wanted a child of his own, and one of them was infertile, but the man thought the woman was infertile, so they divorced. After the divorce, Wang Fangfang took her daughter back to her hometown.

It is precisely because he stayed in a big city that Wang Fangfang has seen some of the world. So his character and behavior are more open and vain. Not only that, but he will also enjoy it. He is nothing like a country girl.

7. The reason why Wang Fangfang can climb the ranks of white-collar workers as a village girl is that Wang Fangfang is somewhat charming and really beautiful, which can be said to be the local village flower.

Third, the two met and got married. After returning to her hometown in Wang Fangfang, Wang Fangfang was criticized by the villagers because she was a single divorced woman with children. Everyone said that Wang Fangfang had been dumped. A native chicken is a native chicken, but she can't be a phoenix. In short, the villagers speak badly.

9. Under the pressure of public opinion in the village, Wang Fangfang chose to compromise, because she has a good family with her children, and no matter how beautiful others don't want her. So I can only marry a poor family.

10. Under the introduction of the matchmaker, I met Zhang, but I didn't like Zhang. Compared with her ex-husband, Zhang is a bumpkin. But there is nothing she can do, so as long as Zhang can give a bride price of 65438+200,000, they will get married.

1 1. Zhang has lived for decades, but he hasn't touched a woman yet. The appearance of Wang Fangfang made him feel that spring was coming, so this120,000 bride price was patched together and finally received120,000 bride price.

12. So the two men got married in a hurry. I thought life would be like this all my life, but these two people were never from the same world, a loser and an honest man, which laid the groundwork for the later tragedy.

Fourth, the living conditions of the two after marriage. 13. After marriage, Wang Fangfang didn't even consider taking care of her husband and educating her children. Influenced by the consumption thought of big cities, he ate well and set up a beauty card in the county, which was earned by Zhang Xin.

14. At first, it was nothing, because Zhang was still immersed in the joy of marrying a wife. As for Wang Fangfang's expenses, he is also willing. Sometimes, I often bury Zhang, but Zhang also greets with a smile.

15. But marriage is always a marriage. If two people don't support their families with Qi Xin, this family will never go far. Therefore, Zhang finally recovered from the joy of marrying a daughter-in-law and finally woke up. They had a quarrel, and Wang Fangfang got a slap.

16. I'm used to Zhang's obedience, but how can he bear Zhang's behavior and go back to her family angrily? Later, my mother-in-law invited people to intercede at home, but they were all rejected. Wang Fangfang never goes home and stays with her children.

17. Later, Zhang heard that his wife was going to remarry her former white-collar worker. Zhang finally gave up and had to file for divorce, and asked his family to refund120,000 bride price money.

However, the Wang Fangfang family never let go of this bride price. I thought it was a bride price, and they deserved it, so they stubbornly said: No money, I have a home.

Zhang listened to her mother-in-law. At first, he had no idea. If he comes back, he will have bad luck. Because Zhang is an honest man after all, he intends to be a ninja.

18. People can bear it, but life is cruel. 120,000 bride price is ruined, and the family not only owes foreign debts, but also means that there is no money to marry a daughter-in-law in the future, which is a broken incense. If we can get the bride price back, we will not only have no pressure in life, but also have the capital to marry a wife.

Everything has a cause and effect. So, Zhang drank a little wine, and with the strength of wine, plus the pressure of life and confusion about the future, he finally made an honest man commit the latter crime and killed his wife and family.

5. Is it really important to reflect on the bride price? 19. Some people will say that the bride price represents the man's economic strength. His daughter married, at least economically rich. After all, poor couples mourn for a hundred days. There is nothing wrong with this view, and there is some truth. However, the mistake lies in the starting point.

20. In fact, in life, my mother-in-law wants a high bride price for three reasons: First, a good face; The second is to give her daughter a guarantee; The third is to let the daughter not suffer indignities in her husband's family.

2 1. If you are lucky enough to read my article, the following analysis will give you a new understanding of the bride price, instead of living in your own small world, and let you really know what your daughter needs.

22. Reason one analysis: In fact, I understand the fact that my mother-in-law has a good face, and I understand it thoroughly. Mother-in-law has entered the old age, they have fallen behind the pace of the times, and the circle around them is very small. After dinner, they are all only children, so several old people get together and talk about their children the most, and they are proud of their development.

23. For example, when a child of a certain family goes to work in an enterprise or institution, everyone will cast envious eyes. This kind of envious eyes can just realize their self-worth, because children are brought up by their mothers, and the glory of children is the glory of their mothers. The so-called "mother depends on her children".

24. Moreover, as the elderly, they can't keep up with the times and can only realize their self-worth in this way. In fact, in simple terms, vanity is their self-worth. Therefore, there will be a phenomenon of comparing children, and the bride price of children is one of the important elements of comparing.

25. Consequence analysis of the first reason: I can understand you by comparing the bride price, but it is wrong to compare blindly. We are all ordinary people. Your daughter married an ordinary person, because you can't get in touch with the circle of rich people, and it's hard for you to meet a really rich family (even if you do, there will be three reasons, and we will analyze this situation in the end).

26. Since your daughter is married to an ordinary person, your bride price will make the man give up your girl, or the son-in-law's patchwork gift. Have you ever thought about the consequences of these two situations?

27. The first consequence is that the man gives up your girl, but your girl loves him very much. Once the bride price fails, the daughter will only hate you. Of course, I may understand you, but your daughter will definitely have regrets.

28. The second consequence is that the son-in-law cobbles together the bride price. The man owes a foreign debt, and your daughter still doesn't pay it back? Your daughter is heavily in debt, and life will be difficult. I'll tell you again! Once a daughter gives birth to a child, the whole focus will be on her own family, and she will gradually alienate her parents, let alone support them, because everyone is realistic and her energy is limited.

29. Of course, some mothers-in-law may be stubborn and may say that I have returned the bride price in the form of dowry, without dragging down the children. But I ask you, if you return the bride price in the form of dowry, your mother's family must be rich, even if it is not rich, the conditions will not be bad. Also, it is the one-child family. Because there is only one daughter, supporting the elderly or relying on her, I will ask you, do you dare to come back?

30. The bride price is relatively high. Even if the man has no problem, do you think the man's parents have no problem? Your daughter is married. Do you think it can really improve her position at home? Even if you can improve your status, your mother-in-law will treat your daughter coldly, unless her mother-in-law is not short of bride price money. Your bride price is not valued at all, but can you meet such a mother-in-law

3 1. Analyze the second reason: give your daughter a guarantee. I also understand this truth. After all, the divorce rate is high now. In case of divorce, the bride price is the daughter's last umbrella. There is nothing wrong with this idea. Unfortunately, an idea is always an idea. Compared with real life, your idea is really naive.

32. Why do you say that? You want a higher bride price. Do you think you can stay if you don't return the bride price to your daughter and keep it on yourself? I tell you, you can't stay. If you still have a son who is in trouble, I believe his daughter's bride price will be given to him, so you can't think of her! Even for the sake of your daughter, can you stand what your son wants? Do you dare not give it? Because your pension depends on your son, what will happen if you don't give it to your son? I don't think it's necessary to say more.

33. Analysis of the third reason: Let the daughter not suffer indignities at her husband's house. This idea is also good for my daughter, but after all, life is life, and people who can afford it at one time are basically rich. How can a village girl marry a rich family? Oh, your little bride price is nothing in the eyes of others.

34. If the mother-in-law's family condition is not good and the bride price is high, does the mother-in-law have no opinion? If the mother-in-law is strong, your daughter doesn't even have a chance to speak, and your daughter can't refute it, because the mother-in-law said: I will pay a high price for you. Besides, if her mother-in-law is strong, your daughter doesn't even have the right to go back to her family.

35. Some people may refute me, saying that a higher bride price can really make my daughter angry at her husband's house. I admit that some families are like this, but I tell you, this result will only hold true in two cases.

First, the mother-in-law's family is easier to talk about, to put it bluntly, a good man. Second, the mother-in-law has better conditions. Only in these two cases will the result you said hold. But can you guarantee that your daughter's mother-in-law is a good person? You can't promise. Ok, see you next time.