Second marriage matchmaker taboo (ancient and modern matchmaker taboo)

With the rapid development and progress of the country, people's minds have been liberated as never before, especially in marriage. In ancient times, it was "the life of parents, the words of matchmakers." I don't have any power to make decisions. It's all up to my parents. I have no freedom. With the changes of the times, I now advocate free love, but it is still an important part of matchmaker.

Matchmakers have never disappeared since ancient times. They are not only a profession, but also the traditional culture of our country. Every industry has its own grandfather, and they respect the elderly as grandfathers. However, Yue Lao has the reputation of "a thousand miles of marriage". The matchmaker plays the role of matchmaking in marriage, which can be described as a beautiful thing and a thing that makes you extremely proud. But? Matchmakers still have many taboos in matchmaking, which have been handed down slowly with the precipitation of history. So what are the taboos of folk matchmakers?

1. The matchmaker will definitely ask the birthdays of both parties first when setting up a match. If there is disagreement, they won't talk. Even if it is agreed, they will not be happy in the future. For the matchmaker, this is her own doomed love and karma.

2. The matchmaker won't talk nonsense everywhere when the match is unsuccessful, which is a taboo in the industry. People think that people will break their mouths when they talk, so they will not talk nonsense if they are not sure. Only when it is established will it be said. After all, they formed a wonderful family.

When you are a matchmaker, no matter how late or hungry you are, the matchmaker will not live in the other person's house or eat the other person's food, which is taboo for everyone. Some obviously succeed because the matchmaker has suffered losses and turned good things into bad things, so they are taboo. After all, they eat by mouth, and they know what to do and what not to do.

Matchmakers have their taboos, otherwise they won't keep them until now. If they meet small animals, such as dogs and snakes, they will go back and choose a new day. They think it is unlucky to meet these animals on the road.

The matchmaker industry is still very demanding of itself. If the matchmaker fails three times in a row, they will quit. After all, it is not suitable for this business, and grandparents will not bless it.

As a traditional culture of our country, the matchmaker industry can bring hope to countless families, and it is also their favorite cause. After all, many happy families are made by themselves, which is also a great kindness. Of course, some taboos are different in different regions after all. Matchmaker is a special industry, and it is precisely because of their particularity that many different lives have been created.