What do you mean? What do you mean? How do you define your son?

Personally, I think that not all children from poor families can become expensive children. It's not that the rich can't have children, and the children of the rich can't have children.

"Your son came from a poor family" means that the ancients encouraged children from poor families not to give up on themselves, to recognize their own environment, to study hard and to become useful people to society. Children from poor families are sensible, knowledgeable, self-reliant, responsible, start early, work hard early, strengthen themselves early, and become your son early.

? The family is poor and the ordinary family has no background.

"The Birth of Your Son" is a promising child and a child with strong ability.

It turns out that most of us have misunderstood the true meaning of being born in a poor family. It doesn't mean that people without backgrounds, ordinary people and poor people are all born in poor families. The real "cold door" refers to the declining gentry, and the later decline is called cold door. After reading it, I have to say that I always thought that I was born in a poor family, but I didn't expect that I was climbing. I don't even have a door. What about you?

Why can you be born poor?

Students admitted to Tsinghua University have the following conditions:

1, no matter how difficult the family is, it can ensure that there are books to read.

After entering Wuqiao Middle School, he can only go home once a month for the senior high school entrance examination, which means that he spends most of his time studying.

The quality of high school education is improving.

Junior high school curriculum is relatively simple. Through my own practice and diligence, I was admitted to Wuqiao Middle School and Wuqiao Provincial Grade I High School, so the teaching resources obtained by high schools are still very rich.

Poor children can take care of housework, take care of their mothers and study.

Study hard at school and work hard at home.

Most poor children are optimistic.

Judging from the news interviewed, Pang Zhongwang's mother loves to laugh even if her lower limbs are paralyzed. It is reported that she is a very optimistic and self-reliant mother, so she sets an example. Pang Zhongwang gives the impression that she is equally positive and optimistic, loves to laugh, and has the youthful appearance that a teenager should have.

I think it is precisely because of the poverty at home and the optimism of his mother that Pang Zhongwang can be more mature, more sensible and have a more positive attitude than his peers in this environment. He may know that knowledge can change his fate, or at least make a poor family better and his mother happier. Therefore, taking this (filial piety) as a just need, he can actively love learning, diligence+methods, and success is not difficult.

Can poor children give birth to expensive children as long as they work hard? Children with good family conditions should also work hard.

It can be seen that the standards of "poor people" and "expensive children" are very different now. The proportion of the poor is decreasing, and the standard of your son is improving. In addition, the educational resources and teachers provided by schools and society in different regions are uneven, and the educational expenditure of families on students is very different. "Poor people can no longer afford expensive children" is an inevitable result.

On the contrary, those of us who live a well-off life give whatever our parents want. Therefore, in this comfortable environment, some people will think that reading or not will not change anything, because I have a good life now, with food and sleep, and I can do whatever I want. If parents just ignore the education of such children, then they will definitely have the mentality that reading is useless and it doesn't matter whether it is good or not.

Of course, there are some people who don't want to live in this seemingly comfortable but endless life forever. For them, a quiet life seems meaningless, and it is better to rush by. So they will think about reading good books, going to college and seeing the wider world.

summary

In fact, Pang Zhongwang just can't enjoy the superior resources compared with other urban people in life. In addition, the environment brought him mental maturity, and his mother brought him optimism as an example. He obtained good teaching resources by his own efforts (with the help of school teachers and classmates, tuition provided him with tuition-free services). I think these things he got are no different from those in the city.