What happened to the man who gave up his original match and married his lover?

A lover is a rose with thorns, which can be seen from a distance and cannot be played with.

But some people can't help picking roses, even if they are stung.

What kind of relationship is a lover relationship?

Some people say: this relationship is very dangerous, but full of temptation;

Some people say: this is a superficial relationship that meets physical needs but has no spiritual resonance;

Some people say that this relationship is unforgettable. What you can't get in marriage is what your lover gets, but the responsibilities you need to bear in marriage don't need your lover to bear;

Others said: I just wanted to play, but I didn't expect to move my true feelings and finally married my lover back home.

What happened to the men who gave up the original match and married their lovers home? I have interviewed some men who have this experience, and their inner monologues are all from the heart.

Mr. Li, 30 years old

I only have one word "regret". I was forced to get married by my lover. She's pregnant with my baby. At that time, my former partner was not pregnant, and I was busy at work, so I didn't plan to get pregnant for the time being. Later, I chose a divorce on impulse and married a pregnant lover.

A child was born a few months after marriage. I have to say that the economic pressure is too great. My wife doesn't work now, and she relies on me to earn money to support her family. Think about it and regret it. I miss the carefree days when I used to earn money with my ex-wife to support my family. I can travel abroad every year without any financial pressure.

Mr. Bao, 40 years old

To tell the truth, I live a happy life now, which may be a little embarrassing to say, but my marriage with my ex-wife is completely "the words of my parents", so I have never fallen in love with my ex-wife, just because of a responsibility and obligation.

That's why I gave up my original collocation and later stayed with my lover. At that time, she was my lover, but in fact, she is my real lover, so we are very happy now. We will understand each other if we have endless words, and she is also very filial to my parents.

If you want to say sorry, the only regret is that you can't live with your son (ex-wife's child). Although I have a daughter with my current lover, I have always been ashamed of my son and hope to make it up to him as much as possible in the future.

Mr. Huang, 49 years old

My lesson is very painful. Although my life with my ex-wife is not so happy, at least my life is stable. It's all my fault that I was too impulsive and fell in love with a beautiful lover. She is beautiful, capable and scheming.

Her scheming made me willing to give up my ex-wife and marry her. Now I have children with her, but her scheming is too heavy. She has a strong voice in the company where I work hard and has mastered most of our company's property. This is really not a simple woman. Although I love her, I am more afraid of her, afraid that one day she will abandon me with my money.

After all, she is younger than me 15 years old, young and capable, and so good at teasing men. Now that I think about it, I might as well live with my ex-wife. Although it is dull, it is at least reassuring.

Mr. Wang, 35 years old

My divorce lawsuit lasted for two years. In order to marry my lover, I gave most of my property to the early stage. I thought my happy life would come soon after I married my lover.

But it took me a long time to understand that the problems encountered in marriage cannot be solved by changing wives.

My lesson is very painful. Now, I live with her. The economic conditions are not as good as before, but I have a lot of troubles. To tell you the truth, I regret it.