Taurus decides to be friends with each other. Is it possible after that?

Taurus men decide to start with friends, so there will definitely be opportunities in the future, because only when they make friends will they have the opportunity to get along and understand each other. Get along more, you can have emotional contact with girls. Pay attention to the following four points at the beginning:

1) Let women see self-motivation.

The greatest charm of A Man is his successful career. Generally speaking, most boys who start looking for someone to fall in love don't work long, and of course they can't talk about "successful careers". At this time, it is important to make girls feel that you are a self-motivated person. You can talk about other things at will in Kan Kan, but you can't be vague on this issue. You must tell women that you are full of confidence in the future, dissatisfied with the status quo and have a long-term plan. In short, you should show that your future is not a dream.

2) Be confident and responsible.

China's traditional culture has always paid attention to "masculinity and femininity", and most of the girls who grew up under the influence of this cultural environment are reserved, dependent and have strong family values. Of course, I hope to find a reliable and responsible "man", which requires me to show self-confidence and responsibility.

3) Express yourself moderately

The so-called moderate performance means neither too serious nor too casual. Be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should be ridiculed. Most girls like boys who are a little cynical, so don't show that you care about everything.

4) Look mature

Boys are mature and steady, calm and calm, neither supercilious nor supercilious, which has a strong attraction to girls.

2. Further contact with girls' ideas

1) "Take your time, don't worry" is an important principle at this stage.

As the saying goes: you can't eat tofu if you are impatient. Only by taking every step firmly step by step can we reach the point where success is natural. The same is true of love. Don't be too explicit, so that girls can see at a glance that they are chasing her. Generally speaking, love at first sight is rare, and it mostly develops from the steps of communication → identification → goodwill → attraction, which is also realized with the deepening of understanding, so the key at this stage is to get opportunities for further development.

2) Start with the bass.

When you start dating a girl, you should first position the relationship as a "friend". As a friend, you need to communicate, get to know each other, enhance your feelings, and then naturally push the relationship forward and become a "good friend". Of course, it takes some time and emotional process. Don't imagine agreeing to marry you after three days of knowing each other. You should communicate fully and understand that feelings don't come out of thin air. Generally speaking, in the initial stage and further stage of contact with girls, they are generally self-respecting, and prefer to observe and summarize the characteristics and conduct of their contacts from their words and deeds, so it is more important to talk about topics of mutual interest at this stage, express themselves humorously and appropriately, but never say "chasing you". If you don't mention the word "chase", even if there are some words and deeds that girls don't agree with, girls won't have a chance to "refuse" you-how can she refuse you if you don't chase her? ! This will not only reduce the psychological pressure of girls, but also allow you to communicate smoothly.

3) Relax moderately in the process of communication.

We know that the development and growth of life in the world follows a law-relaxation and moderate relaxation. You can observe bougainvillea. The same is true when dealing with girls. Relax and don't pester others all day. If I pester others all day, I think you will get bored, too. Some people say that the key to chasing girls is to use the words "hot and cold, playing hard to get". Think about pestering people all day, because people's brains don't have a process of induction and arrangement, and naturally they can't feel your Excellence or outstanding places. After a proper "cold" for a day or two, the girls' thoughts and emotions have been fully summarized and sorted out. At this time, they will feel very happy, cheerful and happy to associate with you. Sure, bye. In addition, don't show the ambition of "don't marry or not". This gesture is not only not conducive to mutual understanding and running-in, but also lays a hidden danger for the future development or life of * * *. Therefore, sometimes you can play a little trick in good faith, which is also desirable for further development and understanding.

4) create opportunities appropriately

"There is no such thing as a free lunch", and all success depends on your own efforts. Opportunities do not come from waiting, opportunities need to be grasped and opportunities need to be created. It has been said in "Low-key Start": Don't fantasize about agreeing to marry you after three days of knowing each other, that is, don't immediately become a "chase" in the jar. However, you need to create opportunities to get close to girls, which depends on your adaptability and creativity. At this time, you can collect information and try to turn waiting for him into a chance encounter; You can also pretend to be casual and find the best reason to invite someone to do something with you. In a word, this is the most technical process. If you really can't create opportunities, you can also find your predecessors and your good friends to come up with a good idea-stones from other mountains can attack jade! .