Why is the divorce peak after 2 to 6 years of marriage? What is the reason?

Introduction: In fact, the development of marriage needs to go through various stages, and each stage has its own characteristics. Why is the anniversary of men's marriage the peak of divorce? What is the reason?

First, the killing of love before marriage, it is love that maintains two people, that is, the intimate feelings between lovers. At this time, people will feel romantic and appreciate the beauty of love. But with the passage of time after marriage, the romance of this love will become less and less, or even disappear. It leads to a huge psychological gap with many people in marriage, so it becomes more and more unbearable afterwards. And at this time, some people will make demands on their partners, such as what kind of holidays they must have and to what extent they must have a holiday. Then at this time, they will feel that their partner has not done what they want. At this time, there will be more and more quarrels and disappointments, and finally, I have to divorce.

Second, lack of emotional training In fact, love and the intimate relationship between husband and wife are very different. The intimate relationship between lovers is more related to the impulse when falling in love. Once married, the intimate relationship between husband and wife is more like relatives, but some people find it difficult to maintain such intimate relationship with others because they are out of trauma or lack of relevant emotional training. For example, some people often see their parents quarreling when they are young, so they are skeptical about this relationship. Later, even unconscious imitation after marriage eventually led to divorce.

Third, some people are unfaithful to marriage. Some people are born unable to remain faithful in marriage. After a period of time, they feel bored and even have no personal space. Always thinking about cheating or divorce, it is difficult for such people to stay in marriage for a long time.