When my parents died, I didn't have a house at home, but I had uncles and aunts at home. Neighbors said where I could recruit a son-in-law and let me move to other places. Is the neighbor right?

When your parents died, there was no house at home, but there were uncles and aunts at home. Neighbors say where there is a son-in-law? Let you recruit foreign neighbors, right? I think the neighbors may be trying to please your uncle and aunt, but I think anyway? This is the home where you live, probably left by your grandfather, and your parents are also involved, so I think it depends on your own thinking. If I am an adult and capable, I don't think I need to argue with them about these things. I will go to another place and make money to buy a big house. Doesn't this bother them?