Me, female. 199 1, born at about eleven o'clock on September 20th. Everything has gone wrong since we got engaged on June 3rd this year. I am upset, depressed and unhappy at work. ....

You are only 20 years old, and this is the beginning of your youth. Everything is unhappy after your engagement, and it is natural to be depressed and unhappy at work. Actually, you don't have to tell a fortune. Look at this and look at that. I said, on the whole, whether people are happy or not is their own feeling. You are still young and don't have much experience in social affairs and analyzing and judging things. Or you haven't suffered so many setbacks, you may refute me, but I still say so. If you don't believe me, I will give you a simple example. You recall a particularly bad thing in elementary school or junior high school. You think your parents are not nice to you, or your friends are not nice to you. Now, what's the big deal? I am older than you 10 years old. I now look at anything that goes well or not, and analyze it into good and bad aspects. Dialectically, many times a bad thing is not necessarily a bad thing, right? Bad things happen for a reason and are inevitable. You can find the reason through analysis. Of course, you can't just think alone and come to a conclusion. You can find your close friends or people you don't know online to help you analyze it, and it will be clear after listening, right? After analyzing a thing, you will find that you have a new understanding and view of these things. Don't be upset, be good at adjusting your mood. Listen to music. When you are depressed and agitated, you can play games, listen to KK songs, vent or listen to light music. Go shopping and watch movies. Find some jokes, and so on. Be good at mediating yourself.