What subtle changes have taken place in your relationship with your father since you grew up?

When I grow up, I have less and less communication with my father and I won't tell the truth. I even think my father is getting more and more nagging. I don't want my father to decide anything for me, but everything about my father needs me to decide.

First, communication is getting less and less.

When I grow up, maybe it's because I'm busy with my work, maybe it's because of the age gap, and I have less and less communication with my father. When I was a child, my father and I talked about everything, but when I grew up, I neglected my father because of my busy work and my busy life, and my communication with my father became less and less, so I couldn't understand some things my father did.

Especially when dad wants to go out with me, he doesn't want to go out with dad. Everyone likes to travel with friends. When I was a child, I liked to follow my father. I want to be with my father wherever he goes, but when I grow up, I want to stay away from my father and his nagging.

Second, my father is more and more nagging.

As I grow older, I feel that my father is more and more nagging. Because I work outside, I basically call my father once a week, but my father always asks me some questions on the phone, such as eating well, not starving yourself, being nice to yourself, telling him if you have no money, and so on.

I've heard this many times, and every time I hear it, I feel annoyed. Especially if I have something bad on my mind, I will vent my emotions on my father, and then I will become impatient because of my father's nagging. Finally, the two of them broke up in discord.

Although my father and I quarreled on the phone, my father would call me first to comfort me and encourage me. Although my father didn't make it clear, I also know that my behavior is wrong and I will apologize to my father.

Third, lack of communication.

When I grow up, I will hardly tell my father the truth or talk to him. Not to mention any parent-child moments with my father. When I grow up, my troubles become much more and I will be impatient with my parents. I seldom go home after work, maybe only during the Spring Festival. Even when I go home, I hardly say anything to my parents. I feel like a stranger instead.

I didn't know my parents' difficulties until I became a father, and I could understand my father's feelings for me. No matter how children treat their parents, parents will always wait in place, as long as the children look back, they will see. Father plays a very important role in the whole family. Children should respect their parents and communicate with their fathers more. Even if you don't understand each other, say it in time.