How to help the elderly whose wife is seriously ill?

I saw a tear-jerking news this morning: my wife Liu Xianrui entered the intensive care unit, fearing that her husband would be worried, and concealed the 90-year-old man Tang, and the anxious old man looked around for his wife. The next day, he finally saw his wife lying in the hospital bed and brought a love letter he wrote. I roughly adjusted:

Dear wife, Xianrui, I miss you so much. We have been married for more than 60 years. In these 60 years, we have gone through more than 60 spring, summer, autumn and winter as newlyweds. We are very grateful and our neighbors envy us.

We have several excellent children and our family is very happy. ? Hey! You suddenly fell ill, and your son sent you to Chengdu. I don't even know where you are. I have been looking for you everywhere, looking for you in many hospitals in Meishan city where we usually walk. The sky is dark and cold, and my heart is colder. What would I do without you?

People always think a lot when there is no hope. In these 60 years, you lit me up like a candle and sacrificed yourself. I dragged you down, and what I feel more sad is guilt. I think I'm selfish and I don't care about you better, so you're sick. I sincerely apologize to you at this moment. Let me tell you deeply that my wife is sorry for you.

Yesterday, I went for a general checkup. The doctor said that I was healthy. It was more than 60 years' hard work. Thank you sincerely for your selfless dedication. Love you forever.

Wife, you must be strong when you get sick, you must believe in people's will, and you can certainly overcome the disease. The children and I are waiting for you to come back. You have worked hard with me all your life, and I haven't let you enjoy it when you are old. I feel guilty. I blame myself.

Do you remember the promise we made at that time? If the two of us go first, the other one will always hold each other's hands. Keep pulling. Because then I can meet you again in my next life.

I feel like an orphan at the moment. What would I do without you? Seeing this sentence, I burst into tears in an instant.

I don't envy the lovers kissing in the street, only the old man holding hands at dusk.

I remember my grandmother was seriously ill and died in the hospital. I dare not tell grandpa that grandpa with bad eyes and legs came to her with crutches. Seeing the empty hospital bed, grandpa cried! Although grandma was alive, they always quarreled, but their life partner is gone!

My parents often quarrel. Once, my mother wanted to go into the operating room for surgery, and the doctor asked her family to sign it. My mom signed it herself just after my dad left for a while. Father returned to the ward and saw his mother was not in the ward. The nurse told him that her mother had entered the operating room. Later, his mother told him that his father looked at the empty hospital bed and was afraid of losing his mother. Later, her mother recovered, her father loved her very much, and her mother felt sorry for her father. It's really great.

I remember a fortune teller saying that my wife could live to be over 90 years old. I told her jokingly, it seems that I left earlier than you, and you have to see me off later. Who knew my daughter-in-law was crying? From then on, I decided to cherish my health, try not to eat junk food and drink less. I think the highest level of love is to grow old with my son.

The person who can accompany you all your life is not your parents, nor your children, but your lover who has gone through hardships and accompanied you all your life! No matter how filial a child is, it is better to always have a companion. Young couples always come together! Life is short, cherish the people in front of you! The most lasting expression of my love, is choosing to stay by your side. ......