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Are you surrounded by people full of negative energy that you can't stand? They * * what?

Nani, it is unscientific that no one answers this question! Then I will break the negative energy maker (serious face) with you.

In fact, the negative energy in life is often concentrated in the workplace, perhaps because it is a competitive stage for selling labor in exchange for remuneration. When I was in college, I worked as an intern in a city youth league Committee. Later, I resolutely refused to go to such a place because I didn't like some people's mental state of "aging before they get old". But in fact, even in a young place like Goose Factory, many employees are full of negative energy when they are older (mulberry heart).

Negative energy in the workplace is mainly reflected in the following aspects:

1. Worry is unfounded.

This is the primary stage of the disease that is not so serious.

In the Internet industry, we often need to keep pace with the times, and even walk in the forefront of the trend. However, every time I encounter brainstorming or planning new content, I will meet all kinds of "old people" to spend my old age safely. They will tell you that this can't be done and that can't be done, and they will use their rigid thinking and working mode to deal with all problems. They always feel that everything must follow the rules. Once you break their comfortable space, they will show more anxiety and even begin to instill in you all kinds of dangerous possibilities.

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This situation is even worse.

When "old people" find that some new people not only don't listen to their own suggestions, but even bring new problems and challenges to themselves at work, they will show a negative side. They will express their disapproval and rejection of new things on various occasions, and then turn into prevarication for various reasons when they need their efforts, hoping that new things will be stifled in the bud.

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Once they find that new things are not what they think, but are recognized by the market, users and leaders, then the problem comes. They will behave like defeated cocks, eager to vent their anger everywhere, ranging from making things difficult for others at work to insulting and slandering people who do better than them behind their backs, and even fabricating things such as XXX's success because of "good relations with leaders", "stepping on others' superiors" and even "selling color".

In fact, if you carefully observe those people who are full of negative energy, most of them like to get together in various occasions and take a walk with their negative energy. This kind of people are both men and women, but they have one thing in common: losers who stand still in the workplace.

First of all, they don't want to keep pace with the times and accept new things. They want to live on their laurels all their lives.

Secondly, they can't hide that others are better than themselves, and think it's a shame (really a shame, being surpassed by others when they are old? )。

Finally, they will vent all their anger on successful people, but this kind of success has a definition. When you are a little better than them, they will spray you, but when you become their leader, they will behave like white rabbits and start to instill poisoned chicken soup into themselves and the people around them (refer to my question "Why is arsenic for the soul more popular than chicken soup for the soul?" Answer)

People should not take themselves too seriously, especially experienced people, but they should not take themselves too seriously. If you don't study, people are not allowed to catch up.

The race between the tortoise and the hare is probably what it means (laughs) ~?