What did Bing Xin do wrong? Why did her grandson scold her in public and write it on the tombstone? what do you think?

In ancient times, being able to write articles often meant that a person was particularly capable, and even the emperor might find someone to be an official because of his good writing. In the Qing dynasty, some people who wrote well were called "Hanlin" in the Qing dynasty. Although Hanlin has no real power, they are often responsible for giving lectures to the emperor, which is of great benefit, but these people violate the original intention of the ancients to write articles. For example, Li Deyu in the Tang Dynasty once said:

"The sage's virtue also has its place, but in the system, Tang Yu also. The virtue of a saint has no position, but it is based on narration, and so is Kong Zhou's teaching. It is also contemptible to compile the luck of Yao and Shun, with palace cars and drums and jade as the text and mountain dragons, flowers, insects, rice and algae as the chapter. It is not enough to learn from Confucius, forget the essence of benevolence and enlightenment, and be trapped in the compilation of simple sentences. In the case of watering the season, dissolute articles are arrogant and lost in righteousness. "

However, whether writing an article is for benevolence and morality or for "overlord emergency", Hanlin is indeed a very important position. At the end of the Qing Dynasty, Hanlin's official position reached the third class, which can be described as a court official. However, Bing Xin, born on10.5, 1900, was asked by her family to tell her fortune. The fortune teller was puzzled and said: She can be an academician in the future, but she is a daughter. What is this?

Seeing this, we can't help but feel funny for this fortune teller: with his great skill, it is not surprising that women can also be "Hanlin" in the future. I don't know whether he is accurate or Bing Xin is too talented. When Bing Xin grew up, his literary talent was particularly strong. /kloc-at the age of 0/9, he published the essay "Thoughts of Twenty-one Listening" and the novel "Two Schools", thus stepping into the road of literature.

Bing Xin is not only outstanding in literature, but also has special experience in children's education. Her Send a Young Reader is the foundation work of China's children's literature. She is also the most famous children's writer in modern times. She once encouraged everyone to "study hard, study hard, study hard". So why is such a children's writer reviled by his own grandson, and even wrote on his tombstone that "it is a waste of life to teach children badly"?

This will start with Bing Xin's personal experience. Her father served as the battalion commander of the naval training camp in 1903, and also organized the establishment of the naval school, which shows that her family was an upper-class family at that time. She didn't have to worry about living in poverty since she was a child, and she could get a lot of spiritual food-books. Her childhood was relatively smooth, which may also be an inducement for her grandson to hate her later.

Childhood was smooth sailing, and 19 years old published an article and became famous. Joined Christianity at the age of 23 and went abroad to study. At the age of 29, she married Wu Wenzao and went to Europe and the United States to study abroad, successively to Japan, the United States, Britain, Germany and other places. Bingxin, who was in the prime of life, studied abroad all the year round. At that time, the strong anti-traditional thought made Bingxin different from the traditional cultural customs in China.

China's traditional culture pays attention to the education of loyalty, filial piety, benevolence and righteousness for children, and makes people become a person full of integrity. As Mencius said, "Therefore, if the sky is going to send people to Sri Lanka, they must first suffer from their ambitions, work hard on their bones and muscles, starve their bodies, empty their bodies, and do things in disorder, so they have patience to benefit." At that time, Bing Xin, who actively studied western culture and had a strange religion there, was very different from China's traditional mother.

Although she loves her children very much-she married Wu Wenzao and gave birth to a son. They named him Wu Ping, but her love seems to be flawed. Because of her excellent genes and Wu Wenzao's, Wu Ping was excellent, intelligent and studious from an early age. Coupled with Bingxin's hard education, she became an excellent intellectual youth when she grew up. Wu Ping went to middle school in Japan, and then went back to Tsinghua, China to study in university. At that time, it was the acme of high IQ and high education.

From 65438 to 0954, 23-year-old Wu Ping became a senior architect and a few technicians at that time. But Wu Ping's IQ and EQ are far superior to his contemporaries, but he seems to have no IQ superman in character. Because his parents are very famous, and he is also very successful in his studies, he was an out-and-out and successful person at that time, so he soon found a beautiful wife-Chen.

Wu Ping and Chen gave birth to a son, Wu Shan. Later, Wu Shan called Bing Xin "a bad godson and vain". Why did he scold his grandmother? Because shortly after Wu Shan was born, Wu Ping betrayed his wife Chen emotionally. This is not the most critical, because Wu Ping has a new love, so in pursuit of love and freedom, she will inevitably divorce, separating Chen and Wu Shan from this family.

If the divorce is only temporary and the sober days continue to be good, maybe there will be nothing in the future. Surprisingly, Wu Ping quarreled with his wife for six years in order to divorce Chen. These six years not only ruined this marriage, but also gave Wu Shan a great mental torture-parents would break up at an early age, which is unbearable for ordinary people.

To make matters worse, when Wu Ping and Chen Gang finished the divorce procedure, perhaps the spirit affected their health, and Chen suffered from cancer. At the time of divorce, with Chen's abandonment, Wu Ping also gave up his son Wu Shan. At this time, Chen not only had to pay huge medical expenses, but also had to raise his son Wu Shan, and his life suddenly fell into an extremely difficult situation. Is the medical cost of cancer affordable for ordinary families, let alone a broken family?

Wu Shan begged his father to lend him and his mother some money. But at this time, Wu Ping thinks that he has drawn a line with them, so where is the obligation to pay for them? So he ruthlessly refused the pleading of his son and his original wife. At this time, Bing Xin, who was eager to love his son, neither blamed his son's ruthlessness, nor helped the grandson and ex-daughter-in-law.

This made Wu Shan very painful. His father and grandmother are so heartless. Pain to the extreme, it becomes hatred. He felt that Bing Xin taught his son so cruelly, how could he teach someone else's son well? Therefore, he insulted Bing Xin in public and wrote eight big characters on Bing Xin's tombstone: "If you can't teach children well, be a man in vain." It is really rare for a father and a grandmother to be so heartless. What do you think of readers?