There is an old saying in the countryside, is it reasonable to name children "men don't bring heaven, women don't bring immortals"?

Although it is very difficult to name a child, besides being meaningful and pleasant to hear, the name should also be harmonious between yin and yang. Let's see which side of Jin Mu's fire, water and soil is missing in this child's life, and it is necessary to bring these in his name.

When our child was born, when we named the child, my grandmother said that if it was a boy, there could be no heaven in the name and no fairy in the girl's name. Our surname is Xia. Is it not good to name my son Xia? But I think summer is very good and smooth, but there is no way to change it because grandma is particularly stubborn.

Grandma's statement is actually superstitious, because when we name our children, we all give them beautiful meanings, and we also hope that the children will develop in the direction of this name. But how a child develops is not determined by a name at all, but depends on the guidance of parents and his own efforts.

If we take the sky to show that our expectations for children are higher than the sky, the act of going against the sky will certainly not succeed. Girls have fairy names, and everyone wants their daughters to be as beautiful as fairies. But if there is a fairy word in it, it will be more beautiful than a fairy, and all the immortals in the sky will quit.

After listening to grandma's explanation, I feel really meaningless. So I don't think it makes any sense. When naming a child, we should listen to the opinions of some parents, but we should also take into account the current social culture.

We should abandon some feudal traditional ideas and try our best to give our children a nice and meaningful name. Although there are some medicinal properties, some traditional cultures are simply unnecessary.